This friend, let the children "know the rules", is often appropriate to restrain the children's behavior, in fact, let the children advance and develop on a normal track, which is the real purpose of parents to let the children "know the rules". To this end, parents usually have to set more rules, requirements and standards for their children. It seems tedious and laborious, but it is necessary. If parents don't do this, the child may be like a runaway wild horse. In the end, the only way parents can choose is punishment. In all family education methods, punishment should be the last resort, and only as the last resort.

In the process of teaching children to know the rules, we can't ignore their creativity. It is worth noting that the child's incomplete behavior is unreasonable, and sometimes it is his creative performance. As long as children don't hurt themselves and others, they should still protect their creativity. When you find that he can beat his rhythm with bottles and jars in the cupboard, why not enjoy it with him? In other words, parents can still "avoid" their children with some habits that do not involve principles.

The most basic thing is to let children pay attention to their clothes. Children's wear can have a certain personality, but it should be "decent". On more formal occasions, I will definitely dress my child in formal clothes and tell him, son, that we should dress neatly on this occasion. This is respect for others, and respecting others means respecting yourself. Only in this way can you become a little gentleman. Of course, you have to wear sportswear when you exercise. Letting children pay attention to their clothes is the first step to teach them to "know the rules".

Let children "know the rules", it can't be established in one day. It needs daily persuasion and reminder from teachers and parents to gradually form. Therefore, parents must first clearly know how to do it, and then help their children to establish it, so that he can naturally form an order in the process of repeating exercises and feelings. When these rules are accepted by children, they will become a part of his life.