This sentence is now more and more verified.
The other day at the subway station, I saw this scene:
A mother took a 5-to 6-year-old boy by subway. Before crossing the gate, her mother said to the boy, "Baby, wait for her mother to swipe her card and get in front of her mother as if she had just entered the station."
The little boy nodded, followed his mother closely and successfully evaded the ticket according to his mother's prompt just now.
After they left the station smoothly, the mother touched the little boy's head and said, "Go buy your favorite pizza!" " "
The little boy said happily, "Good!"
Then the mother and son left talking and laughing.
Seeing this, I was shocked, ashamed of this mother, and more worried about the future of my child.
As a mother, how to teach children to evade tickets for a few dollars?
The value of a ticket can be measured by money, but the education of children can't be measured by money.
I got a little benefit, but I sacrificed something more precious.
How can poor parents set a good example for their children?
Crying for poverty education will sow the seeds of inferiority in children's lives.
The lack of material can change the status quo through hard work, but the lack of mind can't be filled with much wealth.
Zhao in in the name of people seems to be a very clean official. He lives in a very humble home with his wife and children. He goes to work by bike every day, taking the dead salary of civil servants and giving his parents 300 yuan a month, not to mention buying luxury goods. But it is such a seemingly incorruptible official who hides nearly 200 million yuan in cash at home.
His self-report seems to tell the reason: he was born as a farmer and was afraid of poverty since he was a child. Even though his material conditions are not the same as those of those years after he became an adult, he still can't get rid of the sense of poverty immersed in his bones.
Such people are more likely to get lost in the face of material desires, and are more likely to be influenced by external conditions and environment.
Poverty is not terrible, but poor thinking is terrible. Because poverty may drag you down for a while, and poor thinking will drag you down for a lifetime.
We often hear some parents tell their children that it is useless to study hard, and college graduates are not as good as migrant workers.
But if you don't go to college, will your job be easy? For example, migrant workers still work in the high temperature of more than 40 degrees in summer, doing the most tired, dirty and disgusting work, without five insurances and one gold.
Knowledge doesn't necessarily change fate, but it can't change fate without knowledge.
People with low academic qualifications may get along well, but most people with high academic qualifications will not get along too badly.
Some people say, "Don't let children lose at the starting line".
In fact, the starting line for children is not family conditions, but parents' thoughts. In addition to the economic situation and educational resources, what is more important is the thinking and pattern of parents.
Parents with poor thinking cannot raise promising children.
The best gift parents give their children:
No matter rich or poor, there is a rich heart.
The best gift for parents to give their children is not the property left to their children with food and clothing, nor the number of training courses they have enrolled in, but a rich and abundant heart, which is their long-term vision, broad pattern and broad vision.
No matter what kind of situation we face, please pass this belief on to our children: if you want it, go for it! You deserve a better life!