1, the requirements for children are too strict, because children can't meet their own requirements and criticize them. Wang succeeded, Cheng Feng.
This is indeed human nature. Every parent wants their children to get ahead when they grow up, and hope that their children can achieve something. In fact, there is nothing wrong with this, but some parents set a high goal for their children in order to make them become their ideal appearance, such as getting the first place in the exam and getting full marks. If their children can't meet their own requirements, parents will severely criticize their children, and children will gradually become weak and inferior when they grow up in a critical environment.
2. Always compare your children with others. Comparing children is actually a common problem of most parents in China. When the children in the neighborhood are among the best, but the children's academic performance is average, parents like to let their children study more. They will say that I am satisfied with half the efforts of others. In fact, this will really hit the child's self-confidence, and the child's heart is particularly fragile and sensitive. Slowly, children will have their own ideas and will never be better than others.
We constantly belittle children just because they don't study well, which is also a kind of harm to children. Everyone has his own specialty. Learning is not what every child is good at. If every child can get the first place in the exam, it is too common to learn to bully, so be tolerant of children.
3, because of busy work, indifferent to children. Some parents leave their children alone at their parents' home because of their busy work, or ask a nanny to help them take care of them. They pay their children living expenses every month, because they are busy with their work, so they don't care much about their children. They are always indifferent to their children, and gradually their children will become loveless. Children will feel that their parents don't care about themselves, and their parents don't care about themselves, and their relationship with their parents will become strange. Children will become sensitive and inferior, so since they have children, they should be responsible for them. Don't use work as an excuse. If we have the heart, we can make time.
Children's personality problems are often caused by parents' incorrect educational methods, so pay more attention to children. Don't put all the blame on them. Instead of always finding problems with children, it is better to reflect on yourself.