In fact, everyone born from the womb has to go through many tests in life. If they all face it with the right attitude, they will naturally pass the test. If you can't face it with the right attitude, then your life will be in trouble. However, healthy psychology is also given by parents. People's self-awareness has been developing all their lives. His famous eight-stage theory of personality development divides the formation and development of self-consciousness into eight stages, and explains that the order of these eight stages is determined by heredity, but whether each stage can pass smoothly is determined by the environment. Every stage will have positive or negative results, and every result, whether positive or negative, will affect the results of the next stage.
Whether it is infancy, childhood, school age, adolescence or adulthood, it is the key to the sound development of human personality. Deviation education at any stage will cause obstacles to sound personality in the future. What kind of person you are now, positive or negative, can be found in different periods before. Childhood is a turning point in children's life, and it is a stage from ignorance in infancy to basic understanding of the world. Therefore, psychological education in childhood can not be ignored, which will be an irreversible and important stage affecting their lives.
Mental health should start at an early age, and children with mental health will have a chance to win the future. Paying attention to children's mental health education is the responsibility of every parent and teacher, and it is also the most important contribution to children. Cut off the root of mental illness, and there will be no more "walking with meat" caused by neglect.
What is the definition of children's health?
Children's health includes two parts: physiology and psychology. It should be reminded that mental health should not be ignored, but should be treated as the primary part of children's health. Because of physical discomfort, fever and cold can be clearly manifested in the outside, which is easy to be found by parents. As long as it is treated early, it can basically be recovered. It is not easy to find the symptoms of mental illness. If you meet parents who treat mental illness improperly, it will make mental illness spread wantonly, and it will be difficult to cure it to the point where it can't be cleaned up.
What is the standard of mental health?
1, the overall mood is optimistic, and there is a desire for things around you.
2. Not afraid to associate with others.
3. Be able to correctly understand and evaluate yourself.
4. Be able to face up to setbacks and difficulties and keep pace with the times in thought and action.
5. A sound personality.
Only children who meet the above five standards can be considered mentally healthy. The standard of mental health is not a "black line", the left side is healthy and the right side is unhealthy. Psychology is a thing of gradual balance. Only when all aspects have been in a state of balance can we be considered as basic health. It can be said that 100% of children and adults have depression, and only 20% of all these people will become depressed, and 4% of depressed people will deteriorate into depressed patients. Among them, a large part of people's depression comes from childhood, just like a depressed seed buried in the ground. If adults encounter some kind of catalyst in the future, this seed will break through the bondage of soil like fertilizer and break the tendency of depression into depression.
Children's psychological problems, except congenital autism, are generally not incurable. The formation of children's psychological problems is gradual, and there will be some signals when problems begin, such as irritability, anxiety, irritability, listlessness, etc. Behaviors are as follows: not falling in love with school, feeling that living is boring, unwilling to get along with others, silent and violent; Physiological manifestations include insomnia, diarrhea, tinnitus and vomiting. However, if these abnormalities occur and no pathological reasons are found in the hospital examination, attention should be paid to the child's psychological problems. Parents of children without the above symptoms should not take it lightly. They should exercise their children to have a strong heart, otherwise they will not encounter problems. Once they encounter problems, they will be prone to the above symptoms.