Make a fuss, be afraid of crying
When a child falls and bumps, parents panic, and it is easy to develop a child's cowardly character. When children cry, parents will accommodate them in various ways, which will make them heartless, willful and lack of self-control.
Pay too much attention to, arrange rather than
When a family is child-centered and child-centered, they will think that they are the center of the world. Children should be allowed to do the little things they can. Parents do everything, only get a child with clothes to reach out and food to eat.
Prayer and accusation, deprivation of independence
If you coax your child to eat and sleep, promise him to finish his meal, then buy him something and so on. It is easy to lose the prestige of education, and children will develop the habit of talking about conditions. In the name of protection, preventing children from going out alone and playing with other children will develop serious personality defects.
Special treatment, easy to meet
Put the delicious food in front of the child and let him enjoy it alone. In the long run, children tend to become selfish. Giving children what they want is easy to develop a character that doesn't know how to cherish and a spirit of getting something for nothing.
Live a lazy life and protect your face.
Let children eat, drink, and learn irregularly, and do whatever they want. Children often lack self-motivation and self-discipline. Parents should unite as one in educating their children, not one in education and one in face. In this way, children will know who to look for as an umbrella, not to correct their mistakes.