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Sex education is the first lesson parents give their children about love. What should parents do?
First of all, if parents want to give their children a good sex education class, they should psychologically treat their children as independent people instead of treating them as children forever. Many families and parents can't provide proper sex education for their children, because these parents psychologically think that their children will always be children. On the one hand, they don't realize that in this society, children need to have sex knowledge and learn to protect themselves in many places. On the other hand, they are unwilling to admit that their children will leave their parents' wings when they grow up and need to have their own sex life. What kind of sexual knowledge do children need? Under such psychology, it is impossible to give children a good sex education class.

Secondly, if parents want to give their children a love education, then don't talk about transsexuality. After all, this is human nature. For families in China, many children have this experience, that is, when watching TV series, when they see someone kissing in the TV series, their parents will change the channel or talk about him, because their parents' evasive attitude will make their children feel embarrassed. Except for children who are too young to be sensible, they will chase their parents and ask them some sexual knowledge. Other children who know something and can feel their parents' attitude of talking about transsexuality will not and will not discuss these things with their parents again. There are many ways for children to get information now, and parents don't want to talk about it. Children can also search online by themselves, but the information obtained in this way may not be accurate.

Moreover, the family is not a school, and parents' sex education for their children is mostly done in daily life, so parents need to be prepared in advance. Many parents themselves have not received systematic sex education, and their sexual knowledge may be very weak. And unlike schools, families will arrange fixed sex education courses, and sex education in families may be completed through communication between parents and children. Parents should learn the correct sexual knowledge in advance, find some interesting teaching materials, tell their children the hard-to-say sexual knowledge in an easy-to-understand way, and improve their awareness of self-protection.

Finally, the school sex education curriculum is another important source for children to acquire sexual knowledge. Parents should not only exclude the relevant courses of the school, but also cooperate with the school education. There are also some schools that have related courses, and the starting point of the school is good. But some stubborn parents think that children are always children and don't need sexual knowledge. Therefore, not only do they not provide suitable sex education for their children, but they are also very opposed to the establishment of professional sex education courses in schools, and think that it is hooliganism for schools to give such classes to children.