To answer this question, I think we should consider it from two angles, one is age and the other is charm.
The word "charm still exists" comes from the idiom "Xu Niang's charm still exists", while the idiom "Xu Niang's charm still exists" comes from the story of Xu Zhaopei, the concubine of Emperor Liang Yuan in the Southern and Northern Dynasties. I won't repeat this story. But the meaning of this sentence, I didn't think it was derogatory at that time, but it was by no means a compliment. What it means is that although he is not young, he still retains a little feminine charm. However, today this sentence has become a veritable good word in my opinion! Why do you say that?
I think the meaning of "charm still exists" is different in different times, different ages and different people. For example, when the average age of ancient people was relatively low, a 30-year-old woman could be called "semi-old Xu Niang". Today, if you call a woman in her thirties "semi-old Xu Niang", she will be scolded! Why? I'm still a beautiful young woman!
Another example: in an ancient rural peasant family, a 40-year-old woman's face may have been branded with the hardships of the years. It seems a little ironic if you call her a "semi-old Xu Niang". However, the wife of a rich family in the city is the same age, and this sentence is more suitable for her "semi-old Xu Niang".
Of course, there are exceptions to everything. Xiao Huanghou in the legend of Sui and Tang Dynasties is an outstanding stunner! Besides marrying Emperor Yang Di Yang Guang, after Yang Guang's death, she also married Yu Wenhuaji, Dou Jiande, Turk Khan and other figures. But when she was in her 60s, Li Shimin, who was in her 30s, took her into the palace to be a concubine! According to this book, it was Xiao Huanghou's swing style that attracted Li Shimin, but was it the charm that pervaded Xiao Huanghou? It can be seen that the beauty and youth of women are important, but Xiao Huanghou, which everyone loves, is not a typical charm!
Xiao Huanghou in the Tang Dynasty was still so, not to mention people today! Today, with the progress of society and the improvement of people's living standards, not only the life expectancy has been extended, but also the educational level has been greatly improved. Therefore, in addition to appearance, personal temperament and self-cultivation have also improved accordingly. As a result, not only more and more attractive women, but also more and more attractive women. Then, a woman who is over 60 years old and elegant in temperament can't be called a semi-old Xu Niang with full charm?
Therefore, it is a good word to say that the charm in this sentence still exists today, because for any older woman, charm means that she is still young and feminine. Will they not like it if you say so? As for the age limit of charm, I think it is also difficult to determine, as long as the temperament or charm of women is still preserved, charm is still there! Do you agree with this statement?
In ancient China, women reached adulthood at the age of sixteen, gained power at the age of thirty, remained puzzled at the age of forty, knew their destiny at the age of fifty, reincarnated at the age of sixty, and lived at the age of seventy.
Half-old Xu Niang is half-old, that is to say, after forty, she is half-old, and after fifty, she is really old.
In ancient times, without plastic surgery and health care products, it was impossible to hide the appearance of aging and bloated body. Women mature early, but they age quickly.
People over 40 years old are elderly people, and Xu Niang is semi-elderly. Its charm still exists, which means the age group of 40 to 45 years old.
Now we can refer to a woman who is over 50 years old. She is a semi-old Xu Niang.
In this regard, I feel that this "charm still exists" can only be used on women. If it is used on a man, this man will have an opinion that the user of "Charm Still Exists" has no culture and is talking nonsense. This is one of them.
Secondly, since this "charm still exists" is used on women, can it be used casually? The answer is no, such as definitely not suitable for teenage girls. If you use it, even if people don't say it, they will be dissatisfied.
Third, how old is this "charm still" suitable for women? The affirmative answer is middle-aged women. So what is a middle-aged woman? The latest version of the age classification standard is interpreted as: young people are under 44 years old and middle-aged people are 45-59 years old. 60 to 74 years old are young people, 75 to 89 years old are real people, over 90 years old are longevity people, 100 years old are centenarians.
Finally, as can be seen from the above age classification criteria, people aged 45 to 59 are middle-aged. In this way, this "charm still exists" is suitable for women over 45 years old. If it is a woman over 60 years old, it is recommended to use it with caution. As for words like "Lao Huang", don't use them casually, especially in front of women.
Feeling has something to do with education and personal cultivation and maintenance. Some people have no charm all their lives, and some people will have charm from youth to old age!
As for some people who say that Xu Niang is half old, it means that their charm still exists!
No matter how much people have learned and experienced, they will become more and more interesting! It's just that your mind is full of poems and books!
I think it is really necessary to be cautious when saying that a woman is a little old or her charm is still there in Xu Niang, so as not to cause misunderstanding.
Liang Xu's The Woman of Half Life is still graceful and charming in middle age. This sentence comes from Biography of Empresses in Southern History: "Although Xu Niang is old, she still has feelings."
Xu Zhaopei is the granddaughter of former Qiu of Qi State and the daughter of General Liang. She married Xiao Yi, who was still the queen of Xiangdong at that time, and had a son and a daughter.
Because Xiao Yi is blind in one eye, every time Xu Zhaopei sees Xiao Yi, he only draws half of his face and keeps the other half without makeup. Xu Zhaopei is also an alcoholic, often as drunk as a fiddler. Xiao Yi was born unhappy and alienated, and the husband and wife were at odds.
Middle-aged Xu Zhaopei often laughed at the emperor to vent his pain, and became more and more self-sustaining and fearless. He found his lover and met a romantic Taoist named Zhiyuan and a handsome man named Jijiang in North Korea.
Yoshioka's evaluation of Xu Zhaopei is: "White dogs can still hunt, Xiao Li Yang Ma is old and handsome, and Xu Niang is still affectionate."
After the incident, Xiao Yi, a cuckold, forced another concubine to commit suicide by jumping into a well under the pretext of Xu Zhaopei, and sent the body back to her parents' house, condemning her lewd behavior before her death. This is a tragedy and a historical propaganda film to defend women's morality.
Li Shangyin, a poet in the Tang Dynasty, said with emotion in The Seven Wonders of the Southern Dynasties: "The land is long and the nature is long, and the king of Jinling should be radiant. Don't boast that this place is divided into the world, so Xu Fei has to wear half a face. " Such an epic was also described as "half-volume, and Chu women admired its slender waist" in Qian's Lotus in the Song Dynasty.
We believe that if we add the first half of the sentence "Xu Niang is half-aged", then "charm still exists" must be related to age, which means that there is an undue charm at this age, or this charm appears at an undue age.
But we believe that the key to charm is not age, but charm. If there is no such core content, then even if you are in your twenties, you must live without self-confidence, or you can scare Degang Guo's dogs to death like baked wheat cakes.
We don't want to explain in the dictionary. The charm we understand should be the combination of coquettish and lasting appeal. Coquettish refers to attitude, and charm refers to human connotation. If things have not yet reached the philosophical level, they can be learned, even if they are effective. The connotation of this thing needs continuous learning and accumulation in the future, and it also needs your understanding and experience of the life around you. This needs some aura.
Obviously, the charm still exists, and there is a gender. If men are like this, they should be Thai. Only women can enjoy the patent of this word, because it needs tenderness and maternal love to water and cultivate. We are opposed to emphasizing the age attribute of "charm still exists", because it will make this elegant vocabulary look impetuous and tacky.
China's culture is profound and profound, and its writing style is full of charm and artistic conception. The idiom "charm still exists" comes from the Qing Dynasty. Wang Tao's "Random Records of Song Yin" "Although its mother is a genus, the charm still exists, so it is appropriate for an old clam to produce this pearl". The incisiveness of this idiom lies in describing a middle-aged woman who is older and more mature after her girlhood, but still has charm.
"Charm" in "Charm Still Exists" is to describe a young girl. The wind is graceful and elegant, with temperament and spirituality, rhyme and charm, a temperament that emanates from the inside out. Charm is like flowers and wine.
According to the description of the ancients, the age limit where charm still exists generally refers to middle-aged women aged 30-40. Because there is an ancient saying in China that people are not confused when they are thirty, the age limit of idioms with full flavor should probably be in this range.
Charm, another manifestation of sexual charm, is used in some occasions, just like sexy. This thing varies from person to person. I have seen unattractive women at the age of 20 and attractive women at the age of 60.
If women can remain attractive for a long time, if both men and women are smarter. Men in the Woods have less discharge and women have more sex.
Experience. My waist essence is full of charm and stimulates my hormones, and I haven't quit the men's team yet.
"Xu Niang is over 500 years old, and her charm still exists" is an old saying. According to the modern age, it is definitely not for women in their 30 s and 40 s, but for women in their 40 s and 50 s who are running up.