How to educate adolescent children? First, talk about the facts and don't exaggerate the problem. Many parents will compare their childhood or other people's children with him. Some mothers will take the trouble to tell their children what they have done for their children, thinking that they can get their children's understanding and make them aware of their parents' difficulties, thus changing their character. Behavior. However, most parents adopt this method, which not only can't solve the problem, but will make their children particularly rebellious and don't listen to their parents. So when we encounter problems, we just discuss them, don't enlarge them, and help children analyze and solve them, instead of hoping to get their sympathy or hope that children can change themselves.
Second, give your child respect and make him look decent. Everyone loves face-saving, especially adolescent children. Therefore, when a child makes a mistake, parents must not criticize him in public, but reason with him in private and in the form of dialogue on the basis of respect.
Three, near Zhu Zhechi, near the ink is black. Adolescent children like to imitate, but their experience is still very shallow, so parents should guide their children correctly, create a healthy environment for their children, and let the people and things they come into contact with be full of positive energy, so that even if their parents don't teach them, they will follow suit consciously, and basically don't have to worry that they will go bad.
Fourth, parents should set an example. Parents usually ask their children not to do anything wrong, but do parents set an example? Don't do this and that when teaching children, but they are doing these things. This teaching method is particularly pale. If parents can set an example, tell their children what to do with their body movements.
Fifth, don't blame the problem, but encourage it. Children will make mistakes, which is determined by their age and experience. Making mistakes is not terrible for children, but a good thing to promote their growth. But how to make him realize his mistakes and take the initiative to change them. This is a very technical way of education. When a child makes a mistake, let him realize the mistake, don't blame it immediately, but encourage them to solve the problem and change the mistake. As parents, we also started from adolescence. Think about what adolescence doesn't like to do, what it doesn't like to hear, and the most disgusting way of education. I believe that parents will get the answer themselves.