I remember when I was a child, my parents tore it up and asked me to rewrite it. When I procrastinated on my homework, I was called a lazy man, and my whole childhood education was spent in punishment. Now it's my child's turn. I didn't continue their discipline, and I didn't punish them like most parents did. I was deeply sorry, so I doubled the repayment, took the children to eat more snacks, bought more toys and satisfied more unnecessary wishes to make up for my confession. Is this love? In fact, this is arrogance. Even if it can play a role in children's discipline, it is temporary. So what is my way of disciplining children?

1, when the child is uncomfortable, express the parents' understanding of her feelings to the child. For example, if a child falls and bumps, parents will habitually say that it doesn't hurt, so they will stand up. Every time I hear it, I will shout in my heart. If it doesn't hurt, try to fall. Falling down is obviously painful. At this time, I feel that I should analyze with my children why I fell, whether I walked fast or ran fast, so that I would not fall if I tried to slow down next time. The child will get some comfort when she knows that her parents feel the same way.

2. Tell the children how our parents feel. When parents understand their children, they will be more willing to listen to them.

3. Let the children try to solve some problems, that is, after the problems appear, what do you think in order to avoid such problems in the future? For example, every time I take a bus, if I say hurry up, the children will say that I can't ride so fast and I will fall down. If it is a complex problem, the child will not solve it by himself. If you have no ideas, parents can also make some suggestions until you reach a consensus.

I have always believed that education is inseparable from punishment and severity. However, only through books do we know that the most perfect education should be love and understanding. This process requires more patience and care from parents in order to solve the problem of children's growth more effectively.

? Cultivate with love and educate with heart.