What a terrible number, this is just the number of cases we can find, many of which are because of the objective factors of children or parents and choose to hide the undisclosed injuries. Criminal psychologists have pointed out that the proportion of hidden cases in child sexual assault cases is as high as 1: 8.
In other words, every time a similar incident is exposed, it has actually happened eight times.
"Daughter 1 1 year-old, pregnant for 5 months": The child I tried my best to protect was ruined by sex education.
There is such a child sexual assault case. Lele is a student of No.2 Primary School in Magutian Town, Biyang County, Henan Province. At the time of the incident, Lele was in the sixth grade, aged 1 1.
At that time, Lele's mother found that Lele's abdomen was gradually bulging and getting worse, so her mother took Lele to the hospital for examination and was told by the doctor that Lele was pregnant for 5 months.
The news frightened Lele's mother. When she asked Lele sincerely, Lele always faltered and didn't want to say anything.
It turned out that as early as when Lele was in the fourth grade, Lele's teacher Liu sexually assaulted Lele for the first time, when Lele was only 9 years old.
Afterwards, the teacher Liu threatened Lele that if she told her family about it, she would kill her family. Moreover, this teacher is responsible for discipline and style of study at school. Many students are afraid of him, and Lele dare not invade Liu.
In the following two years, Liu repeatedly forced Lele to have sex with Lele, and Lele chose silence.
After the incident, the principal of the school was very surprised and said that he knew nothing. No students or parents have reported such a thing. And told reporters, "Teacher Liu is not unusual at ordinary times, and his wife often comes to see him at school."
In this regard, Lele's mother was saddened. "The child I desperately protected was destroyed in sex education!"
In China, children's sex education is not only seriously "missing", but also very "wrong". We tried to recall that the sex education we received as children came from teachers and parents, and "there was no sex". Whenever the word is mentioned, the teacher will say it is very obscure and the content is very vague, but in the end, he will hit the floor and say, "It is impossible to have such behavior. This is a bad behavior and it is very harmful. "
When a child receives such a signal and has such an impression in his mind, this kind of behavior is bad, shameful and shameful.
Therefore, when the danger of sexual assault comes, most girls are flustered. Teachers and parents only told them that it was bad behavior and shameful behavior, but they didn't tell them what to do.
In the end, the girls chose silence, because this shameful behavior can't be known by everyone. If they know, they will become a bad girl, laughed at by everyone, looked down upon, and my parents will not like me anymore.
In fact, it is parents, not teachers, who should receive sex education most now. We can't let this wrong idea continue to affect our children. If parents can't let their children look at gender relations healthily, how can children have a correct sense of self-protection in the face of injury?
Important: Finally, tell a parent how to educate their children simply and rudely. One day, my daughter came home and told her mother that she was praised as cute in the elevator and pinched by a stranger. So the mother said to her daughter, the next time this happens, she said, "Don't touch me!" " "The grandmother said," Is it impolite to say so? "Mom said," Yes, by the way, it's impolite of you to do so! " "