I think parents focus on their studies, but they don't care about their children's ideological education. They just spoil and don't know how to restrain, so that children feel that their parents are good to him and it is right to accommodate him. He is used to this way of getting along, so he doesn't know how hard his parents have worked for him, and he doesn't know what that feeling is.

Pay attention to children's ideological education

Parents only care about their children's grades and don't care about what their children are thinking. Mothers often only care about their children's food and clothing, only care about their children's achievements, but forget to teach their children to be grateful. It's normal for a child who doesn't know how grateful his parents are to him.

Don't spoil your children too much.

Parents who dote on their children are like shackles on their children, preventing them from growing up. It is parents' nature to love children. However, it is harmful to children to love and spoil them too much. Parents and elders spoil their children too much, making them "little emperors" and "little princesses", regardless of age. Then once parents refuse to "bite the old", it is easy to cause their children's behavior to be extreme.

Parents who know filial piety

Parents who are selfish and don't know how to be filial are hard to cultivate grateful children. The reason why we value family ties so much is that even if there are fetters, it is the warmest warmth in the world. If we are selfish and only regard our parents' love as a fetter, then our children will not give us warm returns in the future. If you want your child to know how to be grateful, you must first be a good parent who knows how to be filial.