The correct way to solve the communication between the generation gap and the new generation of young people: estrangement is a psychological existence, and a good communication method can connect the previously broken psychological connection between the two generations, so as to achieve smooth communication and harmonious coexistence. Because of their naivety, teenagers often look at things with an idealistic attitude. When frustrated, they are easily depressed and easily influenced by others. They consider problems one-sidedly or even impulsively, lack rationality and have unclear boundaries between right and wrong. Parents should communicate with their children more. Conversation enables both sides to communicate with each other, and only communication can understand each other.

Parents should take the initiative to build conversation scenes and create an atmosphere of communication. This conversation must be conducted on the premise of equality between the two sides. Parents should be involved as friends. Don't scold children with a feudal paternalistic attitude, otherwise it will improve their sense of distance. Parents should strive to create a relaxed and harmonious environment for their children, and cannot evaluate and stipulate their children according to their own likes and dislikes and norms. Moderately reduce the requirements for children. Asking too much of children will put psychological pressure on them.

In family life, parents should let their children have the right to speak and learn to accept their attitudes and opinions. This kind of acceptance is not passive, but after really finding out whether the children's suggestions and attitudes are reasonable, they will regard their opinions as treasures and abandon them. In modern society, science and technology are changing with each passing day, and information is ever changing. This generation of teenagers have the psychological characteristics of being open-minded, cheerful, accepting new things and noble personality. Therefore, parents should seriously study knowledge, master children's characteristics in advance, strive to master the characteristics and concepts of the times, keep learning and making progress, create new ideas, conform to the trend of the times, and strive to have common topics and hobbies with children.

Don't be too impetuous, be patient and learn to understand and care slowly. In daily life, we can strengthen communication with children, grasp their recent study and life, and deal with some difficulties they encounter. We should find ways to educate them reasonably and give them relevant suggestions to help them get out of trouble. Especially when dealing with children with certain pressure, we must find ways to help them relieve their pressure and make them happy.