Growing up, many people tell us how to get high marks, how to make money and how to succeed, but few people tell us how to face blows and negations, how to get rid of setbacks, or learn to save ourselves in failure. People often reinvent themselves when they collapse. Have you ever been suppressed and denied?

Stress education; Suppress education

Repressive education will make children timid and self-abased and lack independence. Dare not create efforts, the future is limitless. Become ignorant and derailed from society.

Family education

In the eyes of many parents, it is a kind of "tradition" to belittle their children in front of others, praise their children for being excellent and excellent, and say that their children are not motivated and stupid. So it is really inappropriate to express "humility" in this way. In many families in China, children have no right to speak. Parents' words are unquestionable and provocative, and parents' "shelves" can be taken out at any time to ruthlessly crush children's objections.

Self-cognitive decline

It is in this degeneration that many children become less self-conscious and have no self-confidence. The idea that "I'm just not as good as others" was born and grew slowly, and it was deeply rooted in their hearts. In the end, they really don't want to work hard. Children with this kind of pain may not recover psychologically when they grow up.

mental health

Repressive education has greatly hurt children's self-esteem and obliterated their enthusiasm for self-improvement and continuous progress. I have a friend whose parents are oppressive, which leads to her super negative energy. Opening her mouth and keeping her mouth shut means that her life is not good, and it is lucky that others are better than her.