The sensitive period of catching children
Whether you accept the concept of "sensitive period" or not, through this book, we can more clearly understand the growth law of children's behavior and psychology.
After each case, there are practical solutions, so that we can have fun and gain more understanding and gains from the seemingly "naughty" behavior of children.
Parenting choice
This book revolves around 13 parents' most concerned topics, such as "Why is my child so angry" and "Is TV program early education or injury". In addition to theoretical explanation, it also provides scientific and practical methods with cases.
For example, the "magic rubber band" method for impatient children, and the "kissing method" for separating emotions before children enter school. But the language science major is full of mother's delicacy.
Parental effectiveness training manual
This book is the practical and practical communication skills that we often talk about "listening", "respecting" and "treating children as independent individuals".
Self-improvement psychology
Why does home hurt people?
This book tells us the most important psychological viewpoint in the most popular language: a person's personality is determined by the relationship between childhood and parents, and the relationship model between "inner parents" and "inner children" is the relationship model between him and the world.
the road less traveled
If a person wants to control his destiny in his own hands, he must realize the limitations brought by his family background.
And give full play to one's subjective initiative to avoid and get rid of the shadow of childhood, which is the performance and process of one's mental maturity.
ant on a hot pan—like a cat on hot bricks/a hot tin roof
We can really understand the significance of communication and quarrel in the family, and understand the long-standing checks and balances, triangular relationship and the influence of family background through detailed handling of details and descriptions of real and shocking family contradictions.
No matter how good the book is, it can only be "for reference only". Only by thinking, practicing, persisting and believing with the thinking in the book will it become the road under your feet.
Intimate relationship
In the process of loving and being loved, we have all experienced pain, fear, ecstasy and happiness. We are eager to establish a sincere and intimate relationship, but we are afraid of being hurt again.
Once we thought that only the efforts of both sides could save a relationship, but we didn't know that unilateral improvement could also get us to the other side of the spiritual relationship. I thought that the dispute in intimate relationship only originated from personality disagreement or love, but I didn't know that there was a hidden childhood need. ...
We are eager to use a road map to guide us through the complex obstacles of intimate relationship, to understand and melt emotions and the original beliefs behind them, to accept the current problems and turn them into appreciation, to get out of the endless cycle of victimization, persecution and redemption, to return to the present moment of intimate relationship, and to feel the happiness that love brings us.
Second, positive discipline.
suggestion
In the matter of education, we often say "you don't want to …" to our children, but seldom say "you want to …" and "how can we do it …". This may be because we receive the most "Don't ……" from parents and education experts.
Positive Discipline is called positive because it teaches us to raise children with positive, kind and firm beliefs, and also because the author tells the details and implementation of education positively, teaching us what to do step by step, and how to do it without being spoiled and strict.
Three (no shouting, no screaming)
Recommendation is the best "occupation" and the worst "occupation". It's parenting!
When children "don't bear it", it can make you sweet to your heart; But once they "endure", they become little monsters, make trouble at will, and don't cooperate. Few parents can always control themselves, and yelling is inevitable! After that, the child looked frightened and began to cry, while the parents were full of guilt.
It's not that we don't know that yelling is not good, but how can we control it properly and become gentle and considerate parents with firm principles?
This book can be said to have cracked the secret book of "parents yelling". It doesn't make parents feel ashamed, and it doesn't try to preach. It just teaches you to track the behavior of yelling, understand the reasons for yelling, understand the temperament differences between yourself and your children, and provide strategies to reduce yelling.
Positive Discipline is called positive because it teaches us to raise children with positive, kind and firm beliefs, and also because the author tells the details and implementation of education positively, teaching us what to do step by step, and how to do it without being spoiled and strict.
"The Language of Parents" Parents' competition for their children's education investment is becoming increasingly fierce. However, the language of parents and caregivers, a huge treasure house of educational resources, has long been ignored by the public. This book will guide parents how to use language to help their children build a strong learning brain in their daily conversations, so that children will no longer "lose at the starting line".
"How to cultivate children's social skills" Social skills are children's ability to solve conflicts and get along with others. People are social animals, and it is difficult for children without social skills to succeed. Through dialogues, games and activities, children are taught how to solve problems, how to deal with daily contradictions with friends, teachers and family, how to find various solutions and consider the consequences, and how to understand the feelings of others, so as to live in harmony with others and grow into a person with strong social skills and full of confidence.
"Don't shout, don't shout" is the best "occupation" and the worst "occupation". It's parenting! When children "don't bear it", it can make you sweet to your heart; But once they "endure", they become little monsters, make trouble at will, and don't cooperate. Few parents can always control themselves, and yelling is inevitable! After that, the child looked frightened and began to cry, while the parents were full of guilt. It's not that we don't know that yelling is not good, but how can we control it properly and become gentle and considerate parents with firm principles? This book can be said to have cracked the secret book of "parents yelling". It doesn't make parents feel ashamed, and it doesn't try to preach. It just teaches you to track the behavior of yelling, understand the reasons for yelling, understand the temperament differences between yourself and your children, and provide strategies to reduce yelling.
"You are a child's best toy." If you become a parent in a daze, you will be helpless in the face of all kinds of problems brought by your child. Instinctively, we may lose our temper with him, indulge him or ignore him. But from a professional point of view, this is all wrong and will bring great harm to children. Many people will study, study and take part in the postgraduate entrance examination in order to do a job. But what job in life is more important than being a parent? Being a parent without studying is risky. I got this book by chance, and after reading it, I thought it was the luckiest book in my life. I thought it was a book about how to play with children, but it turned out to be a book about psychology, which taught us a method called "emotional guidance". It's amazing!
You are the best toy for children.
The luckiest thing in our life is to meet our children, so how to fatten this lucky thing? That is to grow up happily with children-you have bought many things that children like, such as Altman, dinosaurs, skateboarding and story machine, but what do children like best? You must be chasing happiness with him, because in the world of children, what is happier than playing with mom and dad? Therefore, parents are the best toys for children.
Marriage psychology
The luckiest thing in our life is to meet our children, so how to fatten this lucky thing? That is to grow up happily with children-you have bought many things that children like, such as Altman, dinosaurs, skateboarding and story machine, but what do children like best? You must be chasing happiness with him, because in the world of children, what is happier than playing with mom and dad? Therefore, parents are the best toys for children.
Chat with your children.
What is the most valuable idea that this set of books conveys to parents?
That is to know more about parenting knowledge, it is better to have a quiet chat with children! If you want to chat with your children, please check your conversation habits first. When you squat down and communicate with your child head-up, it may open a warm world for him. As long as we are willing to listen and understand the child, it is easy to enter the child's world, which is helpful to cultivate his self-confidence, creativity and perceptual thinking.