When he got home, the child was the only one, and the whole family was by his side. Of course it will be more arrogant. Parents are advised to ask more questions about kindergartens after their children come home. Listen to the children's performance in kindergarten. Try to let the children take their performance home in kindergarten, and slowly you will find that the children are sensible, polite and well-behaved
What if the child always loses his temper?
Children's education depends on personal practice, and what kind of parents (or guardians) will have what kind of children. Parents must pay attention to their words and deeds in daily life. No matter the contradiction in work or life, don't be rude or even hit people on the spot. Your live performance is remembered by the child, but it will stay in her heart for a long time, and its influence on her is subtle, just like the butterfly effect. Never take it lightly.
connect
Communication is a very necessary channel for children to accept the correct outlook on life and values of their parents (or guardians). You should point out his shortcomings and shortcomings, his tantrums and bad habits in words. Some tips are needed here: children have self-esteem, and they also want to save face. When we talk about him, we should be careful not to be in front of other children and parents. You can choose to go home in your room, let him face to face with you, parents can sit at his height, so that he can tell his mistakes with confidence, and we should be good at listening, commenting on mistakes and letting him know where they are. If he corrects the same mistake next time, he must praise it in time.
punish
Punishment is a necessary measure for children to make mistakes. If the child is disobedient, loses his temper, and does not change after repeated education, he must be serious. Of course, I didn't mean to hit him! We can start with other punishments, such as cartoons he likes to watch, snacks he likes to eat and friends he likes to play with. These can be used for reference. After the punishment is over, psychological intervention should be carried out immediately. The way is to listen and point out the reason why he was punished. If he makes such a mistake again, he will be punished more severely until he does not make a mistake.
In fact, the child is smart, and he also knows that it is not good to make mistakes, and it is even worse to be punished for mistakes. They will also take the initiative to change. Don't worry, there are no uneducated children, only careless parents. My child used to have a bad temper. He always makes a hullabaloo about over a trivial matter and sometimes breaks things. I was anxious, because I saw it in my eyes, so I had to calm down and talk to him slowly in my own language. After about half a year, he really changed a lot. It really pays off.