1, accept children's personality differences.

Every child is a unique individual with his own characteristics and advantages. Parents should respect their children's personality differences and don't expect their children to be what they imagine.

2. Reduce social pressure.

The pressure of social competition is great, and parents will also feel the pressure from society. Parents should reduce social pressure, lower their expectations of their children and give them more free space.

3. Understand the laws of education.

Parents should learn the law of education, understand the law of children's growth, and formulate appropriate educational methods according to children's characteristics and growth stages.

4. Establish a good family education atmosphere.

Parents should attach importance to family education, create a good educational atmosphere, establish good family relations, communicate closely with children, and cultivate their self-confidence and independence.

Introduction to educational anxiety;

Educational anxiety is a common psychological problem, which refers to a psychological state of being nervous, anxious and uneasy about various problems and challenges in the process of children's education, and even affecting family and personal life. Educational anxiety is generally caused by external factors such as parents' expectations for their children's future, the pressure of social competition, and internal factors such as family education methods and parent-child relationship.

The manifestations of educational anxiety include: paying too much attention to children's academic performance, asking too much of children, ignoring children's personality and interest; Excessive intervention in children's study and life, not giving children enough autonomy; Worrying too much about children's problems and being too nervous lead to children's emotions being affected; Excessive anxiety about children's future, pressure on children and so on.

If educational anxiety persists for a long time, it will have a negative impact on family and personal life, and even affect children's physical and mental health and growth. Therefore, parents should be aware of the existence of educational anxiety and take corresponding measures to alleviate it, such as seeking psychological counseling, actively communicating with children and learning scientific family education knowledge.