Parents should tell their children some common rules on weekdays, such as holding their mother's hand when crossing the road, brushing their teeth before going to bed, not running around with scissors and not opening the door to strangers at home. ......

There is no need to make rules after children make mistakes. Parents can make a clear agreement with their children before they have done it. Taking preventive measures can also prevent many dangerous things from happening.

Second, children should not be punished in a hurry when they do something wrong.

After being a parent, the temper is getting bigger and bigger, and a little mistake made by a child can "ignite" the anger of parents.

Parents, listen to me. After the child has done something wrong, give yourself a few seconds to calm down and think about whether the child should be punished for this wrong thing.

Children's cognition is not mature enough. Many times, the mistakes in our eyes are actually "fun" for him. He didn't know it would make his mother angry.

For example, if the baby is wet by water, the mother can calmly tell the baby, "Go to the bathroom to play with water, and don't get the floor wet." The peaceful attitude of parents will make the baby more convinced and more sensible.

Third, parents lead by example.

In addition to the requirements for children, don't forget to set an example. When the baby is in bed, think about whether you have the habit of staying in bed. When the baby is picky about food, think about whether he is picky about food.

If parents want to set rules for their babies, they should set an example and restrain their behavior. After a long time, the baby will naturally learn from his parents.

Fourth, the rules should be easy to understand.

Children are still young, and many rules may not be implemented in place, so it is better to make rules for children according to their age characteristics. The requirements for children are still simple, and complex rules can be added slowly.

Don't force children to become well-behaved children at once, which will not only increase the pressure on children, but also often make parents unable to get what they want.

Fifth, the rules should be put in place.

After many parents set rules for their babies, they often fail to implement them. For example, they agreed to wash their hands before eating, but once they didn't wash their hands, thinking about letting the baby eat quickly, they didn't urge the baby to wash their hands.

This is very wrong, which will make the baby feel that making rules is not an important thing, and other rules will not be actively implemented in the future.

Parents should pay attention to the implementation of every rule. Once it is set, there is no room for discussion. Only in this way can the child be executed in place and be a well-behaved person.

When a child does something wrong, we should criticize not the child, but the wrong thing, and don't let the child feel that he is a bad boy. Let the child know that making rules is not to punish him, but to make him a better person.