First, oppressive education will make children feel inferior and cause great pressure, which is not conducive to their healthy and strong growth.
To love children, we must fully respect them and let them face everything in life with confidence and optimism. If oppressive education is carried out in the name of loving children, children will gradually fade away under the oppression of their parents, and inferiority complex will gradually replace self-confidence and self-confidence, which will bring great pressure to children and is not conducive to their healthy growth. So since you love your child, why not let go of the hand that only expects your child and let it exude confidence and charm in the sunny weather!
Second, oppressive education will make children confused about the future and have a huge psychological shadow, which needs to be cured for a lifetime.
The atmosphere of family environment plays an important role in children's growth. A relaxed and warm family environment will make children brave the storm and forge ahead. On the contrary, in the family of oppressive education, parents always let their children step by step, blindly deny their children and let them follow their own ideas, so in the process of constantly denying their children, they will be confused about the future. The psychological damage caused by growing up in such a bad family atmosphere will make them feel inferior among their peers. Such psychological damage needs to be cured through a lifetime.
Parents love their children and can provide correct guidance for their children's growth path, but they can't make decisions for their children. If children are allowed to grow up according to their own ideas, they will become their own puppets. This oppressive education method will make children drift away from themselves.