In the past, it was said that a poor child was born. Today, it is said that the parents' eyes determine the height of the child.

I think family conditions and parents' education level are very important for children's development.

Parents' education is to teach by example, and one's living habits and attitudes can determine one's future development. I don't know whether the development in question refers to the success of career or the development of personality.

If you mean the success of your career, there are many factors that affect it. Family conditions and parents' education level are on the one hand, and personal efforts and opportunities are decisive conditions for success. If we refer to the development of personality, I think it has a lot to do with family conditions and parents' educational level. Parents' words and deeds affect the shaping of each child's personality in the process of growth, and even affect his life.

Let's talk about what mom and dad taught us by example. In fact, mom and dad really didn't tell us what to do, but they influenced us bit by bit with their own personality and attitude.

My mother was educated at that time. My grandfather is my mother's stepfather, so it is not easy to train my mother to study. Mom's handwriting is beautiful! I remember when I was in primary school, the name of my exercise book was written by my mother. The teacher asked me who wrote my name, and I said it was written by my mother. The teacher said that my mother's handwriting is very beautiful. Second brother's handwriting is particularly beautiful, which may be inherited from his mother's genes. Later, mom and dad met and went to dad's army with the army. My father is very kind to my mother. He always said that my mother grew up with her stepfather's parents, always looking at other people's faces and not letting her be wronged at all. Because of mom and dad's love pattern, my brother and I are very stable and happy in marriage.

My father turned to the army and then worked in the city. My father's culture was learned in the army, because my father's learning comprehension is very high. Although he studies in the army, his knowledge and wisdom are slightly higher than others. Dad is the only one of the brothers who came out of the countryside. At that time, rural people were very difficult and there were few employment opportunities. They just point to the fields to live, and it is even more difficult to encounter droughts and floods, and the days are tight. It's not like you can farm now, but you can work in your spare time. City people get paid every month. Relatively good. Because there are many rural relatives in the family, it has become a joke in the neighborhood, saying that our family is a "car shop." Every time my relatives come, my mother will cook them good food and take them back with big bags when she leaves. At that time, we had a special complaint. The flour and rice that we were reluctant to eat (then known as white flour and rice) were eaten by relatives. Because of their relationship, my family's life is also very tight. I still ate steamed buns before my eldest brother got married! Because I was not satisfied with eating steamed buns, I remember I lost my temper and went on a hunger strike without eating steamed buns. Because I am the only girl in my family, my father loves me very much and takes me to the cooperative to buy bread. Now I really don't understand. After the big brother got married, life at home was much better, because the brothers all went to work and earned more money at home. Although parents' words and deeds to their relatives were incomprehensible at that time, now we treat our friends and relatives with the best side of our family. When I grow up, I also understand the truth of "don't do to others what you don't want me to do to you".

At that time, my parents helped my relatives at home, and my relatives respected my parents very much. If there is something at home, they will always be called. When I was a child, I went to my relatives' house. They always give me the best, give me a little princess. It was my brother and I who got married and found someone, and all the neighbors took the initiative to find our home. This is because mom and dad's personality is recognized by neighbors, and the children educated by such good parents are of course good. I know my wife, and my mother-in-law came to me on her own initiative, just because she was optimistic about our family and felt that the children could not be wrong. I really didn't live up to my parents' education and always respected my parents-in-law. When I first got married, I lived in a bungalow My mother-in-law and I live across the hall. Even if we quarreled, how could I be angry? I would never take anyone else's mother. Just be reasonable. My neighbor's mother also took me as an example to educate her girl, saying that I only speak truth and never swear. I didn't know these words until her daughter told me.

Mom and dad are also very strict in their living habits, that is, what impressed me the most is that dad doesn't allow us to wear flip-flops As long as we wear shoes, we must lift the heels and don't step on them. Brother is not allowed to drink, and he must not drink during special working hours. Dad once said that he is serving others at work. If that person comes for a drink, Dad says, "If you can do it, don't do it. You look down on people who drink. " When I was young, I couldn't understand what my father said. It makes sense to think about it now. It's impolite to respect others and not to do things with wine. After drinking, it stimulates the nerves and makes things irrelevant. In fact, my brother can't drink, even when his family is reunited, drinking depends on his father's face, and he doesn't dare to drink too much or be presumptuous.

Dad has some rights in his job and is responsible for agricultural tax work. But dad is honest and will never ask him to do anything. If he can do it, try to do it. My uncle once said that if he stood in his father's position, he would make a lot of money, and he could not be as upright as his father. Dad said, be frank, sit at home, sleep at home, and it won't bother him if there is an alarm outside, because he is frank at heart and has never taken bribes. Second brother went to be an accountant. Dad first had a formal conversation with his second brother: "As an accountant, you can't make a difference, and your hands and feet should be clean." . Second brother has been working hard according to his father's instructions. Because of the wave of business, the capable second brother wanted to do something, left his job without pay and went to the sea to do business, and made some money. Of course, the second brother also suffered a lot. In fact, at that time, my dad didn't agree with my second brother to do business, but my second brother was stronger. At that time, my father was very old, and the education of his children was not as strict as before, so I let my second brother go. In fact, if my second brother had listened to my dad and worked in the unit with peace of mind, he wouldn't have suffered from what happened later.

My father and my three brothers exercise freely together. Whenever they grow up, my father gives them the key to managing money at home. Eldest brother is the first child to get this key. Not only is he in charge of money, but his eldest brother has to deal with everything at home himself. After the eldest brother got married, the father gave the family financial power to the second brother, and the second brother gave it to the third brother after marriage. After my three brothers got married, they were all masters of their own affairs and never let my father worry. To my shame, I haven't got the key to being in charge, and I haven't figured it out yet. Maybe dad wants me to be the shopkeeper of cutting. Hey hey!

In previous years, because my father was an official cadre, there was no welfare room in the factory, and my home was large, so my father waited for his three sons to get married. A two-bedroom wedding room was built for each of them. It is said that this house was built by my father. In fact, all the houses were built by three brothers. Eldest brother can be a bricklayer, second brother can be a bricklayer or an electrician, third brother can be a carpenter, and third brother does carpentry such as window frames. My three brothers don't know why they are so versatile that they can pick up everything. Mom is in charge of cooking, and dad is the commander in chief, so there is no need to do any work. Sometimes my mother can't stand saying that my father: "If you look at the child tired and you don't help, just watch your mouth (referring to directing the child to do it and not doing it yourself)". The children led by the father are very capable and can hold on at home. It is a fact that their parents have never been disturbed.

Although my brothers and I have not achieved anything, we all respect our parents and it is our duty to support them. We are self-reliant and have good friends wherever we go. This may be the charm of our personality, and we feel that we are very successful.

Therefore, I think in the process of growing up, whether to develop in a good direction or a bad direction, and how far we can go in the future are closely related to his family conditions and the education level of his parents.

Hello, I'm glad to answer your question. I am carefree you.

Do you think family conditions and parents' education level are important for a person's development? Personally, I think it is very important, not only important but also very important.

First, resources are different.

With good family conditions, you can get better learning resources, better learning environment and facilities. You can go to a good school, find a good teacher and find a living environment for learning and growing up. The story of "Three Movements" in Meng Mu illustrates the importance of learning environment, so families with good conditions can buy school districts, and the learning atmosphere is strong. You can even get more excellent foreign learning resources, which is beyond the reach of ordinary families.

Second, parents have different educational ideas.

Parents with higher education level have different educational concepts and values for their children. Parents can share their successful experiences with their children and help them better. Through personal connections, we can strive for a better school for our children.

Third, life planning is different.

Ordinary families generally just want their children to study hard and find a good job in the future. No matter how hard you work, you don't know what job you are looking for. Family conditions are good, and parents have high academic qualifications. This is a king bomb. From the birth of their children, they have planned their own lives, and what kindergartens, primary schools and middle schools they want to go to in the future have all been planned. Children in ordinary families can only find their way to the future by their own efforts.

Fourth, the horizon is different.

In families with good economic conditions, parents can often take them to different places to play, read thousands of books, visit Wan Li Road, broaden their horizons, increase their knowledge, and even experience a different life abroad, which is helpful for their children's development. But ordinary families can't say that they can't go out to play, and the opportunities for going out to play are different, so their experiences and horizons are obviously different.

Fifth, the interpersonal circle is different.

Different families, different parents' status and children's contact circles are also different. Children with good family economic conditions can optimize their interpersonal relationships through their circle of friends, which is helpful for their future growth and development.

Sixth, there is a lack of many troubles.

There is no trouble in choosing a school, and you are free to choose a school instead of a school candidate. After work, you have no trouble finding a job. It is easy to find a job through parents' contacts or family conditions.

Summary: Family conditions and parents' educational level have a great influence on children's future, and even play a decisive role. If parents have good conditions and high academic qualifications, part-time job is the king's bullet, and children will win directly at the starting line, but families and parents can't choose for themselves. No matter what their families and parents are like, they will make a difference as long as they work hard enough.

Family is the earliest school where a person grows up, and it is also the eternal background and support. Where is home, people are there. Family conditions determine the basic trajectory of a person's future work and life, and the educational level of parents determines a person's basic literacy and life trend.

Do you think family conditions and parents' education level are important for a person's development?

I can say that this question is not very important.

It is undeniable that good family conditions and parents' higher education level can promote a person's development. A person's growth is inseparable from family education. If parents are highly educated, they have their innate advantages in family education, and good family conditions can also create innate advantages for children's development. However, these are not all.

A person's growth is influenced by family education, school education and social education. Some children can be successful even if their family conditions are not good. Some children, whether family conditions or parents' education, are enviable, but they may not succeed. Like Li Moumou, the child of a famous singer a few years ago, I don't need to say more. Everyone knows who it is. Isn't he also in prison? There are also many children who lie to their fathers like this.

A person's development, in addition to background reasons, is more important. In the same way, you can never wake a person who pretends to sleep. If you don't work hard yourself, no one can make you succeed in the end. So good development depends on your own talent, your own efforts, your own destiny ... these factors determine the degree of development.

Therefore, I think a person's development, family conditions and parents' educational level are influential, but they are not decisive factors. It can also be said that family conditions and parents' educational level are not very important for a person's development.

Personally, I think the education level of parents has a certain influence on children's education, but it is not big. I think it is parents' thoughts that really affect children's education, but it is generally believed that there is no advanced thought without education. Actually, I don't think so. If your parents have experienced enough things, they will be much more open-minded than other parents.

A person's growth is related to family, school, society and self-efforts, so family conditions and parents' education level have an important impact on a person's development!

First of all, let me share the important influence of family conditions on a person's development.

Good family conditions can provide good material conditions for children to learn, meet the hardware conditions for children to enjoy high-quality school learning, have more opportunities to contact excellent students and excellent teachers, and have a better learning platform; However, things also have two sides. Since ancient times, great talents have suffered a lot, and there have never been many great men. In fact, a person dotes on himself, is afraid of suffering, and does not make efforts to make progress. No matter how good the family conditions are, such people can't have a good development in the future. On the contrary, some people with poor family conditions develop better, because they have the spirit of hardship and know how to change when they are poor! In Mencius, six people, Shun, Yuan, Guan Yiwu, Sun Bin and Bai Xixi, were born in adversity, but they finally achieved something. Now many people with poor family conditions have finally developed well!

The educational level of parents has an important influence on a person's development.

Generally speaking, highly educated parents have a high positive influence on their children and high expectations. They will know better how to help their children grow up better in every critical period of their growth! However, it is not absolute. It is precisely because of parents' high educational level and high expectations for their children that parents' comparison psychology makes children feel pressure and anxiety prematurely, which leads to many children's mental health problems and later stunting; Some parents who have no education or a low level of education will have a good development in a relatively relaxed environment if they do a good job in family harmony and care about their children's study without excessive pressure!

Dialectics tells us that internal cause is the basis of change, external cause is the condition of change, and external cause can only work through internal cause. Therefore, for external conditions such as family conditions and parents' educational level, the most important thing is to work with your own subjective efforts!

I hope that growing children, no matter what kind of family they are born in and whether they have educated parents or not, should be full of confidence in the sunshine, cherish their precious study time and not waste the spring of life, so as to have a bright future!

I tell you the answer with my story:

I took the senior high school entrance examination, but I failed, so I had to go to a technical secondary school. But before school started, my father refunded the tuition and went to the third grade to re-enter the high school. Later, I was admitted to Zhongnan University of Economics and Law with 2 1 1 University, and then I went on to study for a master's degree at South China University of Economics and Law. Now I am a postdoctoral fellow in Peking University.

If it weren't for my dad's insistence, I might be a worker on the Foxconn assembly line today. This is the father who changed my life, but his education level is not high, and he is a farmer in the mountainous area of western Hubei.

After I went to college, I worked very hard. I took an interdisciplinary exam and passed it three times. The third time, my father told me that if I failed the exam again, I would not take the exam and work directly. Because I am poor, I can't carry it This is the capital given to me by my family conditions. I don't have that many resources.

Later, I was admitted to Huazhong University of Science and Technology for a master's degree, which went smoothly, but now I regret not going abroad to study for a doctorate. At that time, I naively thought that studying abroad for a doctorate was very expensive, and I didn't consider it at all. In fact, most foreign doctors have scholarships. What I want to say is that family conditions limit your height.

But don't rely too much on family conditions. My family condition is very poor, which you can't imagine, but I have come to this day, and my personal efforts the day after tomorrow must be the first.

Generally speaking, the influence of family on children is very great. If parents have high literacy, they will have a subtle influence on their children. As the saying goes, teaching by example is more important than teaching by words.

However, if it is not a harmonious family, parents will demand their children according to their own standards, and harsh requirements will put pressure on their children, sometimes counterproductive.

It can be said that family conditions and parents' educational level have great influence on a person's development. First of all, a person's family conditions are better, his education level and available resources are better, and his horizons are certainly very broad. On the other hand, if a person's family conditions are poor, he may only be able to support him to study today, then his resources are limited, and maybe some of his interests have not been cultivated. The educational level of parents will also greatly affect children, but these conditions are innate and cannot be changed. If the family conditions are not good, then we can only bring better conditions to the next generation through our own efforts.