I. Family environment
Family environment is one of the important factors for children's growth. A harmonious and stable family environment can promote the good growth of children. On the contrary, an unharmonious and unstable family environment will affect children's growth and education. Some parents will transfer these emotions to their children because of their emotional problems or work pressure, which will increase their psychological burden and make them feel disgusted with their parents' education. In addition, the marital relationship between parents will also affect the degree of children's aversion to parental education. Some families have quarrels and cold wars, which will affect children's trust and respect for their parents.
Second, the generation gap
With the development and change of society, the generation gap between the new generation of young people and their parents has gradually deepened. A new generation of young people grew up in a highly developed, diversified and open society. They have different life experiences and social cognition, which parents often can't understand, understand and accept. On the contrary, many parents are still stuck in traditional concepts and educational methods, unable to understand the lifestyle and ideas of the new generation. The existence of this generation gap leads to children's aversion to parental education.
Third, the way of education.
The way of education is also one of the important reasons why children don't like parental education. Many parents are too strict, forced, criticized, punished and even corporal punishment on their children, which is easy to cause children's resentment and conflict. Some parents carry out paternalistic management without considering their children's thoughts and feelings, which is also easy to cause their children's resentment and rebellious psychology. In the process of children's growth, parents should communicate and educate their children in a more gentle, patient and caring way to establish a more stable and trusting relationship.
Fourth, the differences in values.
In different cultural and social environments, people have different values. Parents' values often come from their life experiences and social cognition, and are related to children's growth environment, educational background, social cognition and other factors. When the values of parents and children are different, it is easy to see that parents' education for children is not accepted by children, which leads to children's disgust and resistance to their parents' education.
To sum up, there are many reasons why children don't like parental education, but no matter what the reason, parents and children need more open, transparent and trusting communication to strengthen mutual understanding and trust. At the same time, parents should respect their children's personality and ideas, pay attention to establishing a relationship of mutual respect and equality, and help their children grow better.