Many parents know that they should be lenient and strict in disciplining their children, but they don't care much about order. They think it is enough to be lenient and strict with children. In fact, combining leniency with severity is more critical than combining leniency with severity. It is very different for children to be relaxed before being strict or to be strict before being handed over. Parents let their children move freely, let them catch fire and turn off the lights. When it comes to work, Qi has been talking about it, but when it comes to children's learning and training, Qi, who works at home, has never said a word. It's not that he doesn't want to talk about it, but that his children's academic performance is really impatient.

His children have always been interested in or good at one or two courses. My son is not good at any subject. In the case of tutorial, you also need to fill in the historical time and physical geography. He is not an axial force, but the total score is at the end. Will you be angry? Qi has been busy with life for a long time, old boys and Yi Ruobao. He thinks the child is too young to wait until the sermon is over. There is no need to be impatient for the time being. Children are spoiled by the level of food and clothing, so they must be given the most suitable one. This is especially true in culture and education. In order to better repay the children's high-priced cram school and lay a solid foundation for the children, we went to a local famous school to hire a tutor. But I changed another one after school, and finally I got angry because of the contradiction with my children. It is important to be tolerant of children, and it is more important to grasp the order. Doing wrong will endanger life.

Plus a mentor I went to recently, I have always been outspoken. Uncle, you are familiar with the child and have always been afraid that he will be tired. Sleep before you finish your homework, play without previewing before class, and find after-school counseling if you can't keep up. It is too loose for him. As a small teacher, if I put a little pressure on my work, he would make a hullabaloo about and stop teaching. In fact, at first, children loved learning and training, at least not so much rejection. However, Mr. Ze always wants to relax first and then tighten up, giving children a more relaxed learning environment. It is expected that the work pressure will gradually increase after he integrates, but it will have a counter-realistic effect. Children's comfort has long been controlled at a high level, slightly unrestrained. If they encounter some twists and turns, they will be afraid. If the saplings are not straight, how can we hope that the trees are gods?

In other words, no matter whether children are habitually taught or cute like children, generally speaking, children are young and disobedient, and discipline is useless. Don't eat them when they grow up. Just like a tree, if it is too small, it will not be cut down, but it will develop at will and grow crooked. Can you cut flowers and trees that embrace each other without much effort? It's like opening the cage, releasing the bird, releasing the reins, releasing the horse, and grabbing again. Is it not easy to bring inconvenience to yourself? If you don't open the cage at first, it will be easier not to let go of the reins.