1. Not desirable. It is common for parents to expect too much from their children. Parents do this out of love for their children. However, once this expectation makes children feel unattainable, children will not respond to this love, or even prefer not to have this painful love. In fact, there is nothing wrong with parents' expectations of their children, but parents should decide according to their actual situation. If the expectation is too high, not only parents may lead to excessive behavior because they are not satisfied, but also it is not conducive to the growth of their children. On the contrary, it will increase the psychological burden of children, and even lead to the opposition between children and parents, resulting in the educational consequences of haste makes waste. If the expectation is too small, parents' life and children's study will lack a kind of motivation.

2. If parents expect too much from their children, it will increase their psychological burden and even lead to the opposition between children and parents, resulting in the educational consequences of haste makes waste. Parents expect too much of their children's grades, and their subjective wishes cover up the objective evaluation. This excessive pursuit of academic performance and utilitarianism can easily lead children to cheat and have a negative impact on their healthy growth. As parents, some mistakes are harmless to children's ability to distinguish wrong behavior. Such a mistake, the tutor can completely brush it off or even laugh it off. However, for children's mistakes involving life safety or criminal behavior, this needs to be highlighted, and even there is a sense of ritual when criticizing children, so that children will never forget.

There is no need to expect too much from children. You should know their advantages and disadvantages and look at them with appreciation. This is the best policy. Parents must tell themselves that they can't always impose their ideas on their children, or they are particularly demanding of their children, otherwise it will be very unfavorable for their growth. Many parents expect too much from their children, often criticize them and fail to see their advantages, which will hurt their self-confidence. Always encourage your children. Even if the child only makes a little progress, parents will encourage and praise him, so that the child will have more confidence and interest in what he is doing.