In the fifth season of Where's Dad Going? Uh-huh gave the egg tart to my friends around me. When there was an egg tart left, Du Jiang asked him how to divide it. Uh-huh, divide the egg tart into several portions, one for dad, one for the teacher, and keep a small portion for yourself. High EQ education is to train children to learn these things well.
It can be seen that Hem's EQ is very high, and he learned to share the truth at a young age. Mangosteen is also a child with high emotional intelligence. When Xiao Mangosteen and Allen's father met for the first time, they praised Allen's father as handsome, and said that they saw Deng's father in Chuqiaochuan and liked Allen's father very much. This way of meeting, let two people familiar with immediately. It can also be seen that mangosteen is a person with high emotional intelligence.
What is EQ?
Emotional quotient, the full name of "mental quotient", is simply to adjust one's mental state and get along well with others. With high emotional intelligence, he must be a very comfortable person, who can solve his own problems and radiate positive energy to others. High EQ must be cultivated from an early age. So, how to teach children to manage their emotions and become a baby with high emotional intelligence? Absolutely not everyone is preaching "You can't do this, baby …" and "Baby, you have to do this …" so that children can learn to manage their emotions and improve their emotional intelligence.
Learn to know emotions.
For children, the awareness of mentality is not enough. Therefore, it is necessary to teach children the types and characteristics of different mentalities and let them know what positive emotions are and what negative emotions are.
Affirm positive emotions
After children treat emotions correctly, parents should give more guidance, affirm the benefits of positive emotions, and educate children to move towards these positive emotions, instead of rushing to negative emotions when things happen.
Allow negative emotions
Negative emotions are inevitable for everyone. What should we do? Don't deny children blindly, but force them to be cheerful. We can let the children vent their negative emotions a little, and then give correct guidance after the children vent.
Set an example for children
Parents are the best teachers for children. First of all, parents should set an example and control their emotions. Don't expose negative emotions in front of children, otherwise children will not learn well and will gradually become very grumpy.
cultivate hobbies
Personal hobbies can provide us with an opportunity to devote ourselves to doing things, which is the key source of happiness. Encouraging children's rich personal hobbies can not only make them learn more talents, but also make them happy and create a good mood.