On the contrary, if you physically punish your child, it will only make your child hate you or dislike you more! ! !
This will only backfire! ! ! Mr. Tao Xingzhi once said: "Love is a great power. Without love, there is no education ",and the most effective means of education is" education of love ".
Love education is the basic principle and method of children's education. From Confucius' "benevolence" to Mozi's "universal love" shows the importance of love, and Mr. Tao Xingzhi's thought of "universal love for the world" further promotes the education of love.
The Education Bureau informed: "Schools are the main front for educating the next generation and building socialist spiritual civilization, and it is the sacred duty of educators to protect the healthy growth of children. However, in recent years, corporal punishment and disguised corporal punishment have occurred frequently in a few schools, and some even violently attacked students, with particularly bad influence. This phenomenon seriously violates the party's educational policy and hinders children's physical and mental development, and must be resolutely stopped. "
I don't think the notice from the Education Bureau can be violated.
Adhere to the positive education, sensibility, rationality, guidance and perseverance of students. It is necessary to discipline and guide, but also to be strict, to teach by example and to be tireless.
This is what an educator should do.
Not corporal punishment or corporal punishment in disguise.
Therefore, I think the education of love is more effective than corporal punishment. Love education is the mainstream of today's times, corporal punishment will be eliminated, and the educated will not really accept the truth. Corporal punishment is a negative textbook! Love needs heart, not violence! The education of love is rational
Love, as a unique emotion of human beings, can generate great internal motivation in human psychology. The new teacher-student relationship further requires teachers to love students sincerely and show this love through respect and responsibility for students, as the former Soviet educator Suhomlinski said: "The education of love should be the main theme of the whole moral education." Therefore, in educational activities, love should be the most important rational behavior.
Love is a kind of emotion with rich connotation, and its transmission is often completed in daily trivial matters, and the emotional establishment between parents and children is often like this. As the leader of the teacher-student relationship, teachers need to "intentionally" discover, discover and create "sentient" situations, infect and cultivate students' hearts with more rational love than parents and brothers, develop students' moral feelings, and form perfect personality and noble sentiments.
The education of love is deeply rooted in people's hearts and based on it. Corporal punishment is not a permanent cure. Every child wants to be a good boy that everyone loves, but parents just slap or feather duster at every turn, which suddenly breaks the child's desire to be loved; Every student wants to be a good student or even an excellent student that everyone admires, but the teacher's incomprehension or accidental misunderstanding of the students will break the children's desire to learn; What's wrong with being alive? If sticks can really solve all problems, what is the use of our so-called "civilized" and "legal" society?
Children who grow up under a stick are often unhealthy, not only physically but also psychologically. China people's indomitable spirit in the face of evil forces has vanished at the moment when they begged for mercy under the stick. However, it was good to admit my mistake at that time, but in the long run, I was wronged in the process of growing up, but I gave in under the stick, and the culprit was at large. Who can tell whose fault it is? A sinner? Or is it a child's? No, it's the fault of the person who raised and educated him or her. It hurts. I only remember one lesson, but I always forget the pain after recovery. Because under the stick, it is not the key to realize the mistake. Children always think that as long as they admit it, they don't have to fight. This is a vicious circle; But if we had made good use of the education of love at that time and made our children realize their mistakes and correct them, wouldn't it be happy for everyone? The education of love not only improves the atmosphere of getting along with others, but also broadens children's spiritual horizons. Isn't it much better than corporal punishment? That's all. You can sort out these materials yourself. Good luck)