(1) Let the children cooperate with themselves well, help them get rid of their childishness and the role of "helplessness and dementia", and tell them that they will be independent sooner or later.

(2) It is a mother's responsibility and obligation to educate children, that is, don't pretend to be authoritative or give up their duties at will, respect children and allow them to say "no"

(3) After being a good mother, educate children to be conscientious, and cultivate children to be responsible for what they should do and have the ability to do it well.

(4) Cultivate children's willingness to do things, and let children replace their mothers' demands with voluntary ones.

Mothers know things better than children, so let children know their mother's requirements and rules, and let them know that you didn't mean to embarrass him, but because you really have a clear understanding of things.

(5) Mothers should not always do things well instead of their children, nor should they always tell their children the answers, because it is more important for children to know the process of things than to tell them the answers.

(6) Sometimes you can tell children that mothers are also at fault, because mothers are not omniscient and omnipotent gods, and mothers should keep learning. So let the children point out their mistakes. Tell children that not all their mothers' experiences are good. Don't learn from their mothers completely, but try to create themselves and surpass them.

(7) Let the child know that the mother does not regard him as a slave or an emperor.

(8) Let children respect their mother's relatives and friends. Let children cherish what other people in the family cherish.

In life, a mother who is very aware of her responsibilities is usually a person who has confidence in herself and her children. While educating her children, she is constantly trying to make herself more mature.