In real life, most men like to live freely and find a girl who can make them feel relaxed. Therefore, when a man marries a wife, there are eight kinds of girls that will make him flinch: 1, Chang Xianyao's sense of superiority. Unless you think this man is not worthy of you at all, or you think that the door is not right, women should not always want to show off their superiority, which will make men who want to pursue you feel inferior and shrink back. For most men, it is not easy to have Lee's courage to pursue Faye Wong. After all, men don't like to live under the aura of women. People need to follow her everywhere. Nowadays, most girls are favored by their parents and environment since childhood, especially beautiful girls, who have seldom considered other people's feelings and ideas. Maybe a man can be humble or unprincipled when he is in love, but once he wants to marry such a girl, most men will seriously consider it. After all, it's hard for a man to be humble all his life! 3, everything is too concerned about all kinds of details. It's normal for women to expect a lot from men. After all, all women want their husbands to be the best talents in the world, and hope that they can marry expensive from now on. However, if a woman is serious about everything and cares about men's details, it will make men completely crazy. Therefore, most men will stay away from such women, and men like a relatively relaxed living environment. 4. Always make the other person feel powerful. In modern society, most girls have received a good education. Some parents are afraid that girls will be bullied, and they have not given them the humble education of traditional women in China since childhood. So from kindergarten to university, most girls are very strong. However, if in love, boys always feel that the other side is too strong and even don't know how to give men the face they deserve, most men won't have the impulse to marry such a savage girl. 5. Stick to your point of view too much. Men like women who have opinions, but they don't like women who are too opinionated or even self-righteous. For men, women can make their own decisions in trivial matters, but when it comes to bigger matters or principles, men are also very concerned about their rights and authority. If a woman ignores men's feelings and insists on her own opinions too much, such a woman is not liked by men. 6. Paranoid obsession. This is different from being too opinionated. Paranoid girls are usually difficult to communicate with. Such women are often divorced from the public, and their views on life and family tend to go to extremes. Once they want to die because of some problems, it is very difficult to pull her back, and most men are unwilling to spend too much time and energy on some women's ideas, not to mention that it is not a man's specialty. 7, habitually picky about each other's shortcomings. Everyone has his own advantages and disadvantages, and men's shortcomings may be more obvious at home. Laziness or bad habits in life can be found when two people are in love. If women are always obsessed with men's laziness or like computer games, and are always habitually critical of each other's shortcomings, men will feel that women are unreasonable and even have the idea of escape. 8. There is something wrong with emotional control. Women are emotional and easily influenced by good or bad emotions, which is determined by gender. It's just that men want their women to exercise restraint in emotional control. At the very least, don't be too hysterical when you encounter unhappy things, or show a shrew posture in public, which will make men feel embarrassed. A man can go home like a sheep, but he will definitely look like a lion in public. Most men are not afraid to meet such a difficult woman in their first love. At that time, they would be very patient when they were inexperienced. But you have been taken care of by a woman who is difficult to take care of, or suffered some losses, and you will understand when you are older. Never talk about a relationship with such a low return on investment. Men with self-esteem know that they don't have much leisure time to wait on and coax such women, so rational men will always find a woman who feels more comfortable, or a woman who makes themselves less mentally and emotionally tired. In men's eyes, caring women are more congenial.