1. Changing children starts with changing parents.

2. Every parent should use the power of life to say: I believe you, son.

Both parents have different growth experiences and values. If both parents can cooperate and communicate, it will undoubtedly be beneficial to the healthy and happy growth of children.

Children who grow up in a gentle and well-meaning family will have no major personality problems. There is something wrong with the child's personality and conduct, and the responsibility basically lies with the parents.

Spending more time with children is more important than anything else.

6. When there are differences in educational concepts, parents should not blame each other in front of their children, but try to understand the problem from each other's perspective instead of directly attacking each other's efforts to educate their children.

7. Only by leaving children with fruitful and sustainable wealth can they be truly responsible for their own lives.

8. To describe a future that he can't understand at all, it's better to give him a clear small goal: read a book for an hour every day and play the piano for an hour, so that he can know where his direction is and let his children know how to walk under his feet.

9。 Reading can not only shape children's intelligence, but also shape their psychological quality. A good book is often full of feelings of truth, goodness and beauty, which will have a subtle influence on children.

Instead of expecting social education reform, we should start with family education 10. The future of children is in the hands of parents.

1 1, what is more lethal than losing your temper is the cold violence of your parents.

12. Dealing with one's anxiety, nervousness and other emotions is the basis of effective education for children.

13. It is not the purpose of education to make children afraid. It takes patience rather than temper to help them know how to correct their mistakes.

14. If the child is depressed, this is a reminder from the child's body. As long as we hear this reminder in time and respond positively, we can help solve the problem very well.

15, reduce your preaching, and use "touching the child's heart" and good feelings to drive the child's subconscious to act according to your expectations, which is the key to teaching.

16, don't discuss the advantages and disadvantages of children in front of teachers or other parents.

17, we should treat children's evaluation of teachers correctly, and don't talk about teachers or argue with them in front of children.

18, you are child-centered, even under the banner of education, it is a sign of love.

19. Setting an example for children is not only the way you look in front of outsiders, but also the way you get along with children.

20. Don't ignore any details in companionship, because growth really only happens once.

2 1. We should first respect and understand the shortcomings of all essential characteristics of children, and then patiently and slowly improve.

22. Give children appropriate pocket money instead of depriving them of their free choice in consumption, so that children can develop a good view of money.

23. Children's participation is a process of learning and constant tempering. Teaching children often saves trouble, and children will get into trouble when they grow up.

24. Good family education and parents' words and deeds will lay a solid emotional intelligence foundation for children.

25. Parents and children should gain a win-win situation in the process of education, instead of sacrificing the interests of either side.

26. The way you treat your children will gradually shape your face.

27. Tolerance does not mean laissez-faire, and authority does not mean autocracy. Society is constantly changing, but the responsibility of the family has never been and cannot be weakened.

28. Parents who give their children to grandparents or nannies for the sake of easy and comfortable life are actually taking a big gamble on the future.

29. When you find your children muddling along, give them more time and space.

30. The more sincere encouragement, the better. When children move forward, what they look back most eager to see is encouraging eyes.

3 1. Respect children's interests and encourage them to try until they like it.

32. Cultivating a child's appropriate sensitivity to criticism and injury is more conducive to his growth.

33. Under the harsh background of exam-oriented education, cultivating children's appropriate sensitivity to scores will help them grow up better.

34. Exercise is an important part of keeping children healthy. Parents should encourage their children, or participate in various forms of exercise with their children, which can also enhance the parent-child relationship.

35. Overburden will lead to "academic exhaustion" in the follow-up study and lose room for growth.

Scolding and punishing children in public is almost a terrible cruelty.

37. Many times, it is not that children are willful, nor that children can't, but that parents have not found the right education methods.

38. Lying often reveals children's expectations. What they say is inconsistent with the facts, not necessarily deliberately lying, but thinking that the imaginary world exists.

Even if you think it is necessary to criticize or punish children, you need to restrain yourself. Restraint can avoid mistakes and become calm and rational.

40. The meaning of acceptance is to make children feel more secure. Only when he feels safe can he explore, learn and make progress.

4 1. Parents should sincerely apologize if they find that they have misunderstood their children or that their education methods are improper.

42. Don't educate children before going to bed. Children who often fall asleep with fear and tears will have a very dark life.

No matter where you make a living, no matter how hard your life is, please take your children with you as much as possible. Without children, we will be more dangerous.

44. Children who lack communication with their peers tend to be precocious, prematurely lose their innocence and curiosity, and lose their vitality and imagination.

45. Give children a warm and relaxed family environment. Don't use voice to express your love for children. Only by caring and trusting children can children gain a solid sense of security.