Here, I recommend some books worth reading and learning from the parenting books I have read. Avoid spending a lot of money, time and energy, but accidentally fall into the pit of parenting books.
Yin Jianli, a master of education in Beijing Normal University, is an iconic figure in the field of family education in China. Her educational view is a combination of Chinese and western excellent ideas, which is scientific and practical and is the foundation of contemporary family education.
A good mother is better than a good teacher is a family parenting notebook with China characteristics, which combines China's national conditions, educational system and educational philosophy.
The book elaborates on how to improve the quality of love, make learning an easy task, educate students with useful characters, cultivate good study habits, be the wisdom that parents should have, make small things great, and get rid of deceptive educational misunderstandings. It also illustrates and analyzes some mistakes that parents often make in their daily lives, or misunderstandings that are easy to walk into.
For example, the child was accidentally hit by a chair and bench and fell. The traditional practice of China's parents is to put all the responsibilities on things and comfort their children by slapping.
Another goal is to score points. If you do well in the exam, you will be rewarded, and if you don't, you will be punished. This is the practice of China's parents. But in fact, this is a bribe for adults to ask their children to repay themselves with their grades. It is not conducive to children's learning and growth.
In addition, there are such things as cultivating children's good reading habits; How to make children love to eat; How to hold a parent-teacher conference; Whether you should go to preschool; How should teachers punish children who write violent homework? Parents in China are most concerned about whether to accompany their children to do their homework and how to make them consciously watch less TV, which is also the most headache and the most difficult problem to solve perfectly.
If you encounter such problems and troubles on the way to raising children, perhaps this book can bring you some help and inspiration.
Jane nelsen, Ph.D. in Education in the United States, is an outstanding psychologist, educator, marriage and family occupational therapist in California, and the founder of American Positive Corrections Association.
The book Positive Discipline focuses more on the ways and means of positive discipline, that is, how to discipline children effectively without punishment or arrogance.
The book emphasizes that children should cultivate self-discipline, sense of responsibility, cooperative spirit and their ability to solve problems in a kind and firm atmosphere, and learn social skills and life skills that will benefit them for life.
Through the introduction of birth order, bad behavior and logical consequences, the author puts forward some methods to solve the problem. Such as taking the initiative to pause, asking heuristic questions, arranging special time, spending time training children, making daily routine lists, brainstorming and family meetings.
Although there are differences between Chinese and western cultures and parenting concepts, this book is still very practical and operational. Prospective parents and prospective parents who care about parenting can learn from it.
When it comes to Montessori, parents may be familiar with it. A few years ago, Montessori Education Kindergartens and Montessori Education Kindergartens in China mushroomed everywhere.
This book was written by maria montessori, the first Italian woman doctor of medicine. She is a world-renowned outstanding early childhood educator in the 20th century. The Montessori Early Childhood Education Law, which she founded, is popular in the whole western world, even the whole world.
This book mainly analyzes and dissects children's physiological characteristics and psychological development. This paper puts forward the concept of children's sensitive period in intelligence, rhythm, sports, character recognition and work, and points out that adults should seize the sensitive period and love children wisely to promote their healthy development.
By analyzing the underlying causes of parents' yelling at their children and their influence on their children, the author starts with temperament reasons and helps parents gradually adjust and improve their yelling behavior by observing and collecting data.
The book focuses on the deep reasons why parents hide under the roar and anger. For example, a person's mental or physical state is not good; Such as the shadow of childhood; Or take it out on others.
Therefore, this book is more like an emotional management book, suitable for those parents who are willing to let go of their parental status and authority, reflect on themselves, and are willing to transform themselves and increase their parent-child relationship.
Sabari is a doctor of clinical psychology at Columbia University. She was influenced by eastern mindfulness in her early years, and later merged it with western psychological theory, thus forming her own thoughts on mindfulness life and awakening education.
Therefore, although this book is called "The Awakening of Parents", it seems to me more like an exposition and true understanding of life, life and love.
This book uses the mindfulness of eastern Buddhism and emphasizes living in the present. The purpose of this book is to inspire readers, understand and use the spiritual and emotional education gained in the process of raising children, and then help us improve our self-cultivation, and finally make us more efficient and capable parents. In this process of enlightening wisdom, we need to open our arms and tolerate our imperfections, believing that imperfections are only weapons for improvement.
This book is not a simple parenting book, but tells us how to be parents and even teaches us how to be ourselves from the perspective of life, so every time we read it, we will have different understandings and feelings.
Since I was pregnant with Dabao, I have been reading and studying, and I have been in the pit of some parenting books among online celebrities. These five books are all books that I have read more than once. My understanding of professional concepts in books, practical training in parenting methods, and some habits and feelings that require my own in-depth thinking and even reflection have benefited me a lot.
I'd like to recommend it to you, Papa Ma, hoping it will benefit you. There are still many books to read and I will recommend them to you in the future.
Students in the sixth period of Qi's writing class. Chu nianyao