First of all, we should cultivate children's good habits. I remember the educator Ye Lao said: What is education? In a word, it is to form good habits. Education is to cultivate children to form good habits such as study, exercise, behavior, study hard, think and moral character. Good habits formed since childhood will benefit you for life. The so-called good children must have good habits, and the so-called problematic children are generally children with more bad habits.
Secondly, we should cultivate children's correct thinking methods. Today, with the rapid development of material wealth, what children lack is not life nutrition, but psychological nutrition. Parents should actively guide and encourage their children to think positively, explore their own advantages, cultivate their altruistic and prosocial behaviors, and let them feel the value of self-existence. Make real achievements and achievements through continuous efforts, struggle and progress.
The third is to cultivate a positive and optimistic character. The biggest problem of family education lies in parents' negative educational mentality. All children's happiness and happiness begin with positive psychology. Parents need to explore their children's positive personality through a series of transformations such as mentality, relationship, language, environment, experience, personality, behavior and change. Let the child become a tolerant, optimistic, ideal, sound personality and full of positive energy.
The fourth is to cultivate children's good interpersonal skills. With a healthy body and mind, children also need good interpersonal communication. One's strength is limited, and interpersonal relationship is an extension of one's ability. No matter what you do, there must be human factors. We should spend more time on educating and cultivating children's ways of doing things, so that children can be liked wherever they go. These are all intangible wealth for children. Good interpersonal relationship is an assistant to successful career.
Parents should not decide what kind of family and person to raise their children, just as Witt's father raised Little Witt, the first choice is to raise him into a perfect person. Whether to be a scholar or a politician, inventor, entrepreneur, etc. It should be left to the children to choose.