Autocratic family education is a paternalistic style that requires children to obey absolutely. Usually parents will show their authority. Repressed children dare not have their own different ideas, and they have to listen to their parents' opinions in everything they do, which will generally have these effects on their children:

1, independence is poor, because parents have arranged everything in their children's lives, and over time, children will form dependence.

2, weak personality, under the checks and balances of parental authority, children will become weak and have no self-confidence.

3, poor creativity, because everything needs the consent of parents, there are few opportunities to think for yourself, or thinking is meaningless, and gradually lose imagination, creativity will become very poor.

4, neurotic psychology, due to the control of parents, can not easily vent their sorrows and joys, over time, it is easy to become neurotic.

Second, doting family education.

In China, doting is the most common way of family education. Parents are willing to do everything for their children, taking children as the center and indulging them blindly, which leads to many bad habits and personalities of children, which are embodied as follows:

1, can't know themselves, because of the doting of their parents, these children don't have a correct understanding of their abilities, control and abilities. , forming a kind of arrogant phenomenon.

2. Emotional fluctuations are intense. Once their wishes are not met, such children will become very aggressive and unable to get along with the people around them.

3. Loser's personality, stepping into the society, such children are very tolerant of being at home like a tiger and at home like a mouse, and dare not say or do anything when something happens.

4, personality defects, such as willfulness, selfishness, aloof, poor social tolerance and so on.

Third, indulge family education.

The main argument of indulgent family education is to obey the child's nature, give the child a happy childhood, think that the child is not wrong, and let the child develop at will, which leads to uncontrollable behavior and personality of the child, mainly as follows:

1, willful and selfish, don't know how to consider others, just follow your own ideas.

2, barbaric, arrogant, due to the usual indulgence, children will develop barbaric, unreasonable character and behavior.

3, nonsense, childish, reckless, is the legendary Xiong Haizi.