As a teacher, why is it easy to coach and educate other people's children, but it is difficult to face your own children? Some people attribute it to the pressure of front-line teachers' survival and the heavy workload of taking care of children, which invisibly puts children at a competitive disadvantage. But it is far from such a simple factor, but as a teacher, there are many blind spots in the process of educating children.

1. We tend to be more patient with other children.

Teachers are polite to students because they have a sense of distance. When teachers face children, they are often prone to emotional breakdown and can't help them calmly.

2, teachers bring their own majesty, students are prone to awe, and children are often not afraid of you.

Students are naturally in awe of their teachers, so they always restrain their words and deeds in front of teachers, and they are always eager to show their best side in front of teachers, so that teachers can keep a good impression on themselves.

But for their children, parents are parents first, whether they are teachers or not, there is no need to deliberately show only the good side between parents and children. It is not difficult to imagine that in the eyes of children, such parents who are teachers are not real intellectuals, but just people who make a living by holding books. Because our bad habits are always easy to be detected by our parents, and no matter how hard we hide them, we can't hide them. So their children will behave more casually because they are too familiar with their parents.

3. It is often a deep love and responsibility for teachers to help children.

Yes, for teachers, a student who has failed for a long time will be extremely happy as long as he can pass the exam, and even reward his children out of his own pocket. But for parents, even if they pass, they are poor students and cannot be encouraged and recognized. Because parents often have higher requirements and expectations for their children.