First, appreciate and trust, and build up your self-confidence. Psychologists believe that after people's physiological needs are met, the most essential need in human nature is to be appreciated. As far as its spirit is concerned, every young life seems to come for appreciation. Mr. Tao Xingzhi, a famous educator, also pointed out that the whole mystery of educating children lies in trusting and liberating them. Recently, some scholars summarized this sentence as appreciating and trusting children. Teachers' words and deeds have a great influence on the establishment of children's self-confidence. The teacher's smile, nodding and moving are all trust and support for the children. Children will also rebuild their self-confidence in teachers' trusting eyes and supportive words.
Second, pay attention to practice, teach students in accordance with their aptitude and stimulate self-confidence. Self-confidence is cultivated in practice, so whether at home or in kindergarten, children should be given some opportunities to exercise themselves and do something within their power. Usually, you should show your children more opportunities. For example, in the language area, the class where the author works has carried out the best activities I have done, allowing children to communicate with each other and introduce to their peers what they like to do and what is the best, including study and life. This activity not only makes children clear their own advantages and strengths, but also inspires their self-confidence and lets them know how to learn from each other.
While paying attention to practice, we should also pay attention to individual differences and teach students in accordance with their aptitude. For example, in origami activities, teachers can first make an impression on children with poor ability; Treating children with average ability only gives guidance on difficult points; To treat children with strong ability, we can guide them to learn origami by looking at the schematic diagram first. In this way, in the activity, the teacher put forward different requirements for different children. Through the children's own efforts, the children completed their tasks and saw their own abilities and works.
Third, experience success, praise and encourage, and enhance your self-confidence. 1. The happiness of success is a great motivator. A successful positive experience will enhance children's learning motivation and stimulate their desire to try again. Therefore, we should help children acquire abilities and make them realize their desire for success. Because children's knowledge, experience and ability are limited, some things they can do through hard work, and some things they can't do temporarily, even if they work hard. Don't force the children at this time, but also help them when appropriate. 2. Ge Jie, a famous educator, said: Praise is the cheapest, the best and the most effective, but it is also the most easily overlooked method to stimulate learning motivation. Such as; There is a child who doesn't like painting. After the spring outing, she painted her exercise book all green. I asked her: What did you draw here? She replied: the sea. I was surprised to ask: Why is the sea green? When children eat cucumbers at the seaside, they throw them into the sea and dye the sea green. How imaginative. So, I hung her works in the exhibition column to affirm and praise her works to the whole class. I hope all the children can draw different works like her.
Fourth, parents cultivate their children's self-confidence.
Children's self-confidence is closely related to parents' evaluation and expectation of children. As parents, we should always do the following:
1, tap the advantages of children and build self-confidence.
Parents' evaluation of their children is positive, thinking that their self-confidence will be nourished by the spirit if their children behave well. On the contrary, if parents lose confidence in their children, the pillars of children's self-confidence will be destroyed. Every child has his own characteristics, and his appearance is not good in this respect, on the other hand, he may have outstanding performance. Parents should pay more attention to their children, find the bright spots in them, praise and encourage them when they behave well, and let them feel great after being affirmed by their parents, thus building their self-confidence.
2. Give children the opportunity to exercise and cultivate self-confidence.
In fact, the growth rate of children is amazing, and it will change every minute. Parents interfere too much in their children's lives and always think you are too young. You don't understand. If you don't, your child's ability to germinate will be weakened over time. Therefore, parents should provide their children with more opportunities for exercise, such as taking care of themselves in daily life and encouraging their children to do what they can, such as helping their parents buy things and do housework. Parents should give them proper guidance and encouragement to help them achieve their goals, which is also one of the good ways to cultivate their self-confidence. (See the article of Friends Commune 3. Let children have a successful experience and enhance their self-confidence.
Those children with strong ability can often get a successful positive experience, and rarely have excessive depression and inferiority. And those children who have average ability or find themselves a little behind have less successful experience and their self-confidence is easy to get hurt. Therefore, parents should pay attention to creating opportunities for their children to fully express themselves and experience success. For example, parents should play hands-on games with their children at home, so that children can experience success first and build confidence. For another example, in the competitive game with parents, parents deliberately lost to their children, so that their children can experience success. However, while helping their children to gain the initial successful experience, parents should also gradually raise the requirements, from easy to difficult, so that children can constantly improve their abilities and achieve greater success, thus enhancing their self-confidence.