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How to treat the phenomenon of asking parents to help children with their homework?
Recently, Weibo searched for the news that a primary school in Jinhua, Zhejiang stopped signing parents' signatures. Today, when everyone is infected by education anxiety, "checking homework is not mom's business" seems to hurt the sensitive nerve of education division, and many people quarrel directly on social networks.

"If you can't finish your homework, parents don't care. Is it your own child or the teacher's child? " "Signing is a trivial matter, but many tasks that children can't complete must be completed by parents, and parents need to reduce the burden." "After the doctor-patient problem, do teachers and parents still have to fight?"

In fact, relying on teachers' control and parents' help to complete the immediate task and get high marks is tantamount to "pulling out the seedlings to help." We should pay attention to children's self-improvement and self-management. Homework can often reflect a child's ability level. If parents help their children revise their homework "responsibly" every time, or even complete difficult tasks on their behalf, it is equivalent to depriving their children of room for growth.

We can't talk about quality education, shouting that training ability is higher than memorizing knowledge points, but we should actually solidify quality and ability into training skills. Children are restricted from running and jumping at school every day, but they still can't be independent after school. They must study and live under supervision. How can their minds be mature and sound? You must give them a chance.

Parents and children study together, of course, to ensure the quality of children's homework, but in the final analysis, neither teachers nor parents can be responsible for homework, and the only person responsible for homework can only be the children themselves. Homework, originally a means to exercise children's self-management ability after class, seems to have been forgotten now. Don't wait until your child goes to college, studies abroad, or gets married to lament that your child is unable to live and work independently.