Specifically, parents' sense of responsibility should be reflected in the following aspects:
(1) Establish the concept of "building the country through teaching". Children are not only their own children, but also the future of the motherland. It is the responsibility of parents to educate their children well.
(3) Seriously do everything to educate children. Educating children is a long and arduous process. No matter how busy and unhappy parents are, they cannot relax their education. They should guide, help, train and check children according to their physical and mental development needs and actual situation, and correct and supplement them in time if they find any mistakes in education.
2. Parents must have certain scientific and cultural knowledge.
Generally speaking, the higher the knowledge level of parents, the more conducive to the scientific implementation of family education and the cultivation of excellent children. Specifically, parents should especially master the following knowledge:
(1) Basic knowledge of Chinese, mathematics, nature, history and politics.
(2) common sense of sports, music, art, dance, drama and film and television. This knowledge is indispensable for people's entertainment, and it is also an important content for people to exchange ideas and feelings. Children and teenagers are lively by nature, loving body, voice and beauty, but they don't know much about it or understand it. They often ask their parents for help in these areas. If parents don't know anything, children will be disappointed and the common language will be reduced.
(3) knowledge of diet, clothing, residence, tourism and medicine. Only by mastering this knowledge can parents ensure the quality of family life and promote the healthy growth of their children. In addition, this knowledge is also indispensable for children to live independently in the future and can only be mastered through family channels.
Parents must have some knowledge about science children.
If parents don't know the scientific knowledge of educating their children, they may make efforts to please their children and even have a negative effect on their growth. So,
While mastering scientific and cultural knowledge, parents must also learn and master specialized educational knowledge, including the following aspects:
(1) Psychological knowledge. Through the study of teenagers' psychology, we can understand the age characteristics and personality characteristics of children's psychological development, grasp the law of children's psychological changes, and provide basis for education.
(2) Physiological knowledge. By learning the physiological knowledge of teenagers and children, we can understand the knowledge of children's physical development, organ maturity and physique, guide children to eat, sleep, exercise and health care according to the laws of physiological exercise, actively exercise, pay attention to hygiene and improve their physical quality.
(3) knowledge of pedagogy. If you understand that children's physiology and psychology, intelligence and morality are interdependent, you must never ignore the development of one hand for the sake of the development of the other. Another example is to know how to help children understand problems by persuasion and education, and never let children accept the opinions of adults by beating, cursing and giving money.
(4) Talent knowledge. Parents should understand the characteristics of the times and the law of talent growth through talent learning, provide suitable family conditions for their children to become talents, guide their children to strive for success through their own efforts, and develop according to social needs and personal actual needs after they become talents.
4. Parents must have certain educational ability.
Mainly includes the following aspects:
(1) language expression ability.
(2) understand the child's ability.
(3) the ability to analyze and deal with problems. Parents should make an appropriate, objective and timely judgment on the cause, nature, degree and consequences of the problem on the basis of a comprehensive understanding of the situation, and put forward practical and simple ways to get rid of it. For example, analyze the reasons for the decline in children's learning and help him catch up quickly.
Parents must have good psychological quality.
To do a good job in family education, parents should especially improve themselves in the following aspects:
(1) Confidence and courage. Parents should be confident in their ability to educate their children on the basis of objective evaluation of their own quality, family conditions and children's performance, and believe that their children will certainly become talents and make continuous progress. Don't be discouraged even if you encounter difficulties, but have the courage to overcome them. Some children from poor families, with the guidance and support of their parents, are successful examples.
(2) love and enthusiasm.
(3) Reason and tolerance. Parents should maintain a stable mood, take their time, treat their children objectively and fairly, and calmly deal with difficult problems. We should not only look at the problem from the perspective of adults, but also think about the cause and effect from the perspective of children, forgive children's ignorance and negligence, encourage children in trouble and comfort injured children.
(4) Perseverance and patience. Educating children is a long-term and arduous task, which requires long-term planning and short-term arrangement, perseverance and step by step. Be patient and meticulous, be specific and thoughtful, and don't be careless. If there is any omission, make it up in time.
Of course, good moral quality is also one of the necessary qualities for parents. Parents can only educate and influence their children's progress through their exemplary behavior. If parents' own moral conduct is bad, it is difficult to educate their children well, as Confucius, a famous ancient educator, said: "Being honest and doing things without orders; His body is not straight, although he disobeys.
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If you want to educate your children well, let them form good habits in their study and life, and effectively improve their comprehensive quality, please make them like Disciples Rules as soon as possible!
Sages teach filial piety again and again, believe in loving the masses, love kindness, and should be filial to their parents if they have spare capacity. Parents should call on you not to delay your parents' orders, but not to be lazy. Parents should respect their parents' responsibilities, inherit winter and be gentle in summer ..... (Reading more books will definitely improve children's sense of responsibility and inspire their wisdom). You see, this is really a "filial son", the best tutor! How well written! It is catchy, easy to read and easy to teach. There are many video story teaching materials on the Internet. There are many versions suitable for children at all stages. As long as you are willing to encourage your children to watch together, you will definitely make your children like her, and you can really do and carry out teaching in reality. Why not educate children to learn?
At the same time, your question involves teenagers' ideological and moral character, behavior language, academic performance and other family education issues, which parents and teachers are very concerned about and eager to solve. Parents' correct educational guidance plays a decisive role in the process of children's healthy growth education. Here, I sincerely recommend that you watch the documentary "Sage Education Changing Destiny" (also known as Disciples' Admonishment) of a large-scale public welfare forum on Chinese excellent traditional culture education, which was planned and supervised by Chen Dahui. This is a very favorable free network resource about moral education and family education, which can help children improve their healthy growth and learning progress, understand why disasters and accidents happen and avoid disasters. It's true. It's true! It can prescribe the right medicine for children's various problems and is a good treatment! There must be the answer you need, and it is also a powerful teaching material for our parents and elders to learn. It is indeed a rare classic tutor program! There are many wonderful cases in this program to discuss various ways to solve children's education. It is really the best one-on-one tutor for us and our children, and it is also a very good family education network resource, and it is completely free, which is of great help to the improvement of children's academic performance. In life, children and even adults are prone to various problems, such as lack of perseverance, greed, rebellion and disobedience, internet addiction, puppy love, strong dependence and inattention. These problems can not be fundamentally corrected by some simple methods or measures to become a filial and obedient child, but we need to carry out comprehensive and systematic family education to treat both the symptoms and the root causes. In this film, many experts, teachers and parents speak in person and report to the public with their unique experiences, revealing that parents' educational concepts will directly affect their children's family education. Therefore, it is recommended that parents and children watch together. The family education they received from childhood will affect their children's life, and they will certainly get unexpected gains from it!
There is a classic epigram in the film: people can teach well! Good people are taught, and so are bad people! This shows the importance of family education!
However, at present, we are facing various realities: serious lack of social integrity! Various media exaggerate and mislead, and the environment where children grow up is constantly being destroyed and polluted. It is difficult to do a good job in family education! Parents are getting worse. To tell the truth, many parents don't know how to be parents, so they bring their children into this world and put a lot of educational responsibilities on schools and society. However, parents are children's first teachers, and many growth experiences require parents to set an example. They shirk their responsibilities, how can they educate their children well? Really sad!
As children, we often can't understand our parents' thoughts and real experiences, just for our own convenience and enjoyment. To tell the truth, it's a bit of a violation! When we are parents, we can truly understand this feeling, but it is often too late to regret it, alas. ...
Many so-called generation gaps in our lives are caused by the disjointed and inconsistent education received from generation to generation. Nowadays, too many people are eager for quick success and instant benefit, only paying attention to their own enjoyment and ignoring the feelings of others.
You know, all education should start with roots, just like a tree needs roots to grow trunk, branches and leaves, and flourish. If we abandon the fundamental virtue education, everything else will be just castles in the air. I would like to recommend friends who are destined for you. Whether you have seen it or not, please take time out to watch the excellent program of China Traditional Culture Education Forum: "Sage Education Change Destiny" (which can be searched and played on Baidu video or Youku Tudou). I hope everyone who has seen it can get tangible benefits from it and continue to benefit others. Let's work together to create a harmonious social environment.
I hope my answer is helpful and enlightening to you.
Sincerely bless you!
What are the aspects of quality education?
First, love.
The embodiment of a person's quality lies not in how wide his knowledge level is, nor in how strong his ability is, but in the beauty of his soul!
The first is whether he has "love" That is, compassion, compassion. Generally speaking, it means caring for others and being able to detect their difficulties.
Understand the needs of others ... Such people are more willing to help others. At the same time, he will be more popular in society.
Caring children are very kind, friendly, tolerant, grateful, willing to help others, full of sunshine in their hearts, and always see the positive side.
There is love, energy and sunshine.
How to cultivate children's love and compassion?
Parents should set an example.
Parents should have love, help others, and have compassion, so as to provide a good example for their children and let them be affected.
2. Encourage children's friendly behavior.
When others need help, lend a helping hand, put yourself in their shoes and appreciate their difficult side.
Encourage children to know how to share: for example, a story they saw, a favorite book, happy things, their own good learning methods, learning results, their own snacks and so on. You can share it with people around you.
3. Guide children to discover the love around them.
When watching TV movies, there are some touching things in the story, or the spiritual quality of the protagonist, which can be shared with children and passed down bit by bit, and the love of children will continue to increase.
4. Encourage children to participate in social welfare activities.
For example: donate money to the disaster area, or donate some items to children in mountainous areas.
Second, empathy
Also known as: empathy, thinking for others.
Understand other people's feelings, think from other people's standpoint, and have strong inner endurance.
Can guide the child: What if I were him? How do I feel? What?
Third, honesty.
Honesty is very important to anyone. Because honesty is the most basic moral norm in dealing with people.
If a person loses his integrity, everyone no longer believes in him; If an enterprise loses its integrity, it will close down or lose money.
Therefore, it is very important to cultivate children's integrity.
Story: Ceng Zi taught his son to kill pigs.
Ceng Zi's wife went to the market, and his son cried to follow. His mother said to him, "Go home first, and I'll come back later to kill the pig for you."
No sooner had she returned from the fair than Ceng Zi was going to catch pigs and kill them. She stopped saying, "It's just a joke with the children." Ceng Zi said, "Wife, you can't joke with him!
Children have no ability to think and judge, so they should learn from their parents and follow their correct instructions. Now you lie to him, you are teaching your child to cheat!
If a mother cheats on her son, he will no longer trust his mother. This is not the way to realize education. "So Ceng Zi killed the pig and cooked the meat to feed the children.
As parents want to teach their children honesty, the first thing is honesty.
Discipline children's parents not to break their promises and respect what others and children have said. Only when parents do well can they transfer good energy to their children.
Parents should trust their children. When a child wants to do something, if it is within the child's ability, let the child try it, because he will have the power to believe.
When children feel the trust of their parents, their hearts will be full of confidence, happiness and vitality.
Fourth, the sense of responsibility.
A, do your own thing.
B encourage children to contribute to their families, classes and teams and enhance their sense of responsibility.
For example, doing housework at home, cleaning the class and doing some team activities are all cultivating children's sense of responsibility.
If you do something wrong, you should dare to bear the consequences.
For example, when a child breaks a glass, or when a child breaks a classmate's stationery ... there must be an apology and compensation. Let children know how to bear the consequences.
Five, frustration tolerance (children's inner strength in the face of setbacks)
The premise of cultivating children's resilience is to cultivate their self-confidence, positive and optimistic mentality.
A positive and optimistic child will be very happy in the face of setbacks and failures. He has a strong heart and will get up quickly and move on, while some children will feel uncomfortable, cry and even give up in the face of setbacks. So two kinds of mentality will lead to different consequences.
Three ways to cultivate children's sunshine mentality;
First, parents should face life calmly. It's not easy to face life, don't complain and blame. Be more tolerant and remember: don't speak ill of others in front of children.
Second, don't compare your children with other children. Comparing hurts children's self-esteem, which is an act of denying children. The child will feel that in the mother's heart, she always feels that other children are good, and she feels that she is not good. It is easy for the child to dislike another child for a long time.
Third, don't always say that children can't. In particular, don't say that children are not good in public, which will make children lose their sunshine mentality and become inactive and pessimistic. Remember: there is no responsibility in public.
Four steps to cultivate children's frustration tolerance:
1, face the facts
For example, if you take part in some activities, your child doesn't perform well, or loses the game, some parents will say: unfair referee, poor organization, and so on.
If things go on like this, children will accuse others of being bad when they are disappointed. Therefore, the correct way is to face the facts frankly.
Face the fact: it is telling children to find reasons from themselves.
We didn't get a good ranking in this competition, so we should sum it up well, don't argue about anything, and admit this fact.
Step 2 ease your mood
When children are frustrated, some children will get angry and blame others or themselves. Respect children's emotional catharsis.
Step 3 analyze the problem
When the child has vented his emotions and calmed down, he can ask the child: He didn't do well in this exam, or he didn't get a good ranking in the competition. What is the reason? Have you listened to the judges' comments?
What are our shortcomings for those award-winning children? How to work hard later?
4. encourage enterprising.
Say to the child: son, do you want to continue to vent your emotions, be unhappy, and keep your lost mood to study? Or can you summon up courage, continue to cheer in the face of setbacks and strive for good results in the next exam? I believe that most children will choose the latter. Then go on to say: son, I think you are brave and persistent, and you can continue to work hard in the face of failure. Mom believes in you: as long as you work hard, it will be better next time.
Conclusion:
Frustration sharpens a person's will, and adversity makes a person's life.
So when children encounter some difficulties, it is actually a good classroom. Enhance children's willpower and frustration tolerance.
How to carry out quality education for children? First, cultivate children's high sense of social responsibility. Only with a high sense of social responsibility can we have a strong thirst for knowledge and strive to improve our own quality in all aspects.
Second, cultivate children's sustainable learning ability. Children should be trained to respond to the changing world and absorb new knowledge in time. Teachers must stimulate children's cognitive enthusiasm, so that children can master the means and methods of acquiring knowledge, and lay a solid foundation for renewing the ability of continuous learning with knowledge reserves and accepting different types of continuing education and lifelong education.
Third, cultivate children's innovative thinking ability. Teachers have the responsibility to create a harmonious and relaxed learning environment for children, stimulate their subjective initiative and promote the development of their creative thinking. It is necessary to protect children's innate curiosity instinct and create a relaxed development environment and conditions for curiosity and innovative consciousness, which is the necessary basis for developing children's independent thinking ability and innovative ability. It is necessary to cultivate children's ability to accumulate knowledge and comprehensively use knowledge, because rich knowledge is the source of innovative ability.
Families should cooperate with kindergartens to carry out quality education for young children and make efforts in the following aspects:
(1) Change the concept of family education. Parents must establish a brand-new concept of family education, specifically: 1, the concept of family education responsibility of "children become talents and parents are responsible". 2. Modern family quality education concept. In order to lay a good foundation for children's all-round development in morality, intelligence, physique and beauty, and to lay a good foundation for their personality development on the basis of all-round development, we must change the one-sided family education concept of "valuing wisdom over morality" and "valuing knowledge over ability". 3. The concept of "not only dragons and phoenixes, but also talents". 4. Modern family education quality concept that lays the foundation for children to become creative talents. The focus of quality education is to cultivate children's creative spirit and ability, and laying a good foundation for children to become creative talents in the future is the main standard to measure the quality of modern family education.
(2) Change improper family education behavior. The only criterion to measure the change of family education concept is family education behavior practice. Improving the understanding of family education is the foundation, and attaching importance to the transformation of family education behavior practice is the foundation. In view of the requirements of modern education in the 2 1 century and the misunderstanding of current family education, the main laws that parents should understand and master when implementing family quality education are: 1, the law that parents and children are the main bodies of family education. Parents should fully respect their children's independent personality and self-esteem, and fully mobilize and stimulate their enthusiasm and initiative in learning and development. 2. The law of simultaneous cultivation of non-intelligence factors and intelligence factors. Non-intelligence factors have a great impetus to the development of intelligence. Only when non-intelligence factors and intelligence factors are cultivated synchronously and developed harmoniously can there be a successful family quality education. 3. The law of teaching students in accordance with their aptitude. If children are forced to develop according to their parents' wishes against their age characteristics and intellectual basis, there will be no successful family quality education.
(C) families need "five hearts" to implement quality education. 1. Love is the foundation of quality education. Parents love their children in two ways, one is strict love and care, and the other is doting and doting. The former helps children become talents, while the latter leads them astray. We advocate the former. 2. Self-confidence is the power of quality education. /kloc-Elvis Presley, a French philosopher in the 0 th and 8 th centuries, said, "Even an ordinary child will become an extraordinary person as long as he receives a proper education from an early age." . 3. Carefully determine the quality of quality education. Children's quality education is a systematic project, involving intellectual development, scientific feeding, physical exercise, psychological quality, character cultivation and moral edification. These characteristics of children's quality education require parents to be cautious. Pay close attention to the dribs and drabs in children's lives and seize the opportunity of teaching to educate children; We should pay close attention to children's manners, understand their potential and characteristics, and teach them in accordance with their aptitude, so that education conforms to their nature; It is necessary to carefully observe whether children's development in all aspects is balanced and strengthen training in areas that are insufficient; We should carefully observe children's reaction to teaching, so as to know whether the teaching content is timely, moderate and appropriate, and make education conform to the law of children's growth; It is necessary to pay close attention to children's daily life behavior and correct any bad behavior immediately. Patience is the guarantee of continuous quality education. Children's quality education is an enlightenment education, because the educated are not mature physically and mentally, and the teaching effect will not be immediate. Some parents are enthusiastic and motivated at the beginning of teaching. After several times of teaching, they lost patience and gave up education. Such quality education will not be effective. 5. Persistence determines the effectiveness of quality education. Children's quality education is a kind of basic education, which aims at developing intelligence, strengthening physique and cultivating good psychological quality, and permeates education through the whole process of children's growth in a way of environmental edification and subtle influence. Therefore, the teaching time is long, and it is impossible to complete this educational task without perseverance.
Parents should grasp five characteristics of quality education. First, universal quality education is an education with the fundamental purpose of comprehensively improving the basic quality of all students. As opposed to the "selection" and "elimination" of exam-oriented education. Some parents mistakenly believe that children have a future only when they go to college, and they have no future when they become workers and farmers, which violates the fundamental purpose of quality education. It is said that after Truman was elected president of the United States, someone congratulated his mother: "You must be very proud to have such a son." (0 words left)
What problems should be paid attention to in early childhood education? For babies/infants below 1, the best early education is 1. A healthy and regular routine. Good family atmosphere and parent-child interaction.
1. Healthy and regular daily life
I recommend a practical parenting method to novice parents: E.A.S.Y- eat, exercise, sleep and give yourself some time (you). This is not a timetable, but a set of routine procedures, so that the day's life is orderly and the family life is consistent. This is important because all people, children and adults, including infants and young children, rely on predictability to live a healthy life.
2. Good family atmosphere, rich environment and parent-child interaction.
Needless to say, a good family atmosphere, what kind of parent-child interaction can parents and children under 1 year old do? According to Piaget's cognitive development theory, 0-2-year-old babies are in the period of perceptual exercise, and the appropriate early education method is mainly the development of children's senses (vision, hearing, touch and smell) and physical quality. Parents should first pay attention to the development of children's big movements, such as looking up, turning over, sitting and crawling, and secondly provide as rich an interactive environment as possible to promote the development of the brain. For example, take your baby to the park, play games with your baby, read picture books to your baby, and provide some tactile materials for your baby to experience. The specific method is as follows:
First, provide visual * * *
Parents can post some pictures around their baby's crib and change them frequently to promote their children's interest in using their eyes. When he can grasp it freely with his hands, he will pull these pictures as if he could pull out the people and scenery in them; You can also buy a brightly colored crib to improve your baby's vision. In addition, early education experts pointed out that babies are most concerned about faces. Mom and dad might as well cut the paper into figures and draw the general features of the face, so that the baby will stare at these patterns for a long time. In addition, don't always let the baby stay in the crib, take the baby out for a walk, so as to broaden his horizons, give him more opportunities to contact the people around him and promote his psychological, physical, interpersonal and emotional development.
II. Provision of hearings * * *
Mom and dad had better talk to the baby and hum songs often. Maybe you remember the lullaby your mother hummed when you were a child. If you are interested, you might as well record these soft and quiet songs, so that you can often hum at will when you take care of your children. The change of sound, tone and rhythm is a wonderful way to transfer the restless baby, and at the same time, you can write down some popular songs suitable for your baby. For example, a baby who is patting the bath water will be more lively and energetic when he hears the March. Parents can also write their own children's songs. As long as it is creative and stimulates the imagination, the baby will like it.
Third, provide passive exercises.
Parents can often change the baby's posture in bed and chair and encourage him to move his trunk, arms and legs. A baby who can control his head and neck always likes to roll around or play with his arms and legs. You can also gently pull your baby's legs and swing from side to side; Let the baby hold something tightly, and the parents will open their hands and then close them. However, these games can only last for a few minutes, and it is best to play them while changing diapers and taking a shower. Most parents like to sit on the floor with their babies and let them roll. If putting a toy on the floor can attract the baby's attention, encourage him to climb there.
Fourth, provide a sense of touch.
The baby has a pair of dexterous little hands since childhood, and the sense of touch of both hands occupies an extremely important position in the whole sense of touch. Whether it is cold or hot, thick or painful, it is transmitted to the cerebral cortex through the skin. Different fabrics such as velvet, satin and cotton can be provided to rub the baby's arms, calves and thighs. While rubbing, tell the baby the touch of the cloth, such as "rough", "soft" and "hard". Or try to brush the baby's soles with feathers or a soft toothbrush to make him feel different, and then brush his face, fingers and other parts with feathers. You can also let your baby's hands touch water, sand, mud, gravel, peas and other things that are easy to touch in daily life, and compare their differences.
Are there any schools in Beijing that can really educate children's all-round development? My children are studying in Liuli International Education, which is a school with modern Chinese education as its educational system and truly carrying out quality education for children. Formally, exam-oriented teaching is abandoned, and students' learning is not limited to the classroom, but centered on children. The teacher just gives some guidance to the children, and the children are particularly flexible and happy to learn.
I hope I can help you!
What kind of quality education should children receive? Speaking of Japan, I believe everyone is familiar with it. Especially in recent years, the rise of outbound tourism has made people know more about Japan, because for many tourists, Japan is a good tourist country, and even the first country for many people to travel abroad is Japan.
Not to mention the tourist attractions in Japan, which are already Japanese goods, most people are deeply impressed by Japan, except for its cleanliness and quality. When it comes to the quality of Japanese people, let alone Japan's investment in education.
Today, I will show you around the kindergartens in Japan. Japan is a country that attaches great importance to national education. Therefore, in Japanese schools, it is important to cultivate children's gratitude, smile and courtesy, not knowledge.
Moreover, Japanese kindergartens will organize children to carry out various collective activities from an early age, whether it is sports or labor, and cultivate children's unity spirit from an early age. Lunch in Japanese schools is free, and children's nutrition is very important, which is very similar to China.
In addition, Japanese children are very independent since childhood, and parents are rarely seen picking up their children at the entrance of kindergartens. What do you think of such a Japanese?
What principles should we pay attention to when educating children about setbacks? In fact, frustration education is not suitable for all children, so before carrying out this kind of education with strong side effects, we should consider it clearly and analyze it clearly. So as not to regret it later. The key is not to undermine children's self-confidence when conducting frustration education. Can't produce pessimism. (The above are personal opinions, not authoritative)