1. Accept the child's true self.
Adolescent children are between childish and mature, between dependence and independence. Although we cannot agree with certain behaviors, we need to accept them.
Only by embracing change and allowing children to explore, try and make mistakes can we build a complete and independent self in objective reality.
2. Try not to interfere with the child's decision.
Children Dont Ask For Help, parents don't help. Adolescent children are no longer as willing to accept their parents' advice and help as they were when they were young. They have a strong sense of adulthood. Too much intervention by parents, even if they are well-intentioned, will be regarded as offensive and will hurt their sensitive and fragile self-esteem.
3. Accompany children to grow up
Companionship is not only the emotional transmission medium of love, but also the premise of all education. When parents can hold their children firmly like a huge container, the inner love and security that accompany their children will be sufficient, so it is not easy to go outside to seek these things.
Set a clear bottom line
Acceptance does not mean connivance, and the necessary bottom line must be kept. When children rebel for too long or step on the bottom line too deeply, such as being tired of learning, fighting, self-abuse, etc. We'd better ask professionals for help and actively carry out psychological intervention.
5. Observe children's emotional state
Adolescent children's stress hormone levels are unstable, which leads to their moodiness and even serious psychological problems. Parents should observe their children's emotions in peacetime.
Always reflect on yourself.
Children's rebellion may also be a problem of family education. Parents should pay attention to reflection and communicate with their children more, because adolescent education will determine their future quality of life.