Nature is good at the beginning of life, but if he doesn't teach it, he will move. Every child is pure and kind in essence. When he was a child, he was like a blank sheet of paper. The education after tomorrow is equivalent to a crease on the paper. Once a crease appears, it is difficult to eliminate it. Therefore, we have to pay attention to the education of children. However, children's education is not as simple as finding a school for their children. Parents and teachers need to go all out and take good care of them. Children's lives need the guidance of a good teacher. In the process of children's education, many parents will have questions: "After all this, how can children still not teach well?"

In fact, it all boils down to the wrong method. Education needs to teach students in accordance with their aptitude. Each child's own situation is different, and the methods cannot be copied. Old people often say that educating children should start with the "root", so what is this "root"?

First, strict discipline from an early age.

When children are young, it is an important stage to shape values, outlook on life, standards of good and evil, beauty and ugliness, and it is a golden age for children to constantly know themselves. Once missed, children will be affected by it all their lives.

If parents love their children, they should standardize their words and deeds from an early age, establish correct standards of right and wrong, good and evil, and teach their children to be filial to their parents, be kind to others, be tolerant, stand on their own feet and be strict with themselves. So that children can grow up virtuous and self-reliant.

Now, the phrase "My children are still young, and adults still care about them" is often used by parents as an excuse for their children's bad behavior, and now it has even become a normal state. I don't know if this is irresponsible to my children. A parent who truly loves and is responsible for children will not tolerate their bad habits. Only people who don't care will turn a blind eye and tolerate children making mistakes because they are too lazy to care. Therefore, if you want your child to grow up to be Jackie Chan, you must strictly discipline your child from an early age and set rules. Without rules, you can't be Fiona Fang, and unrestricted freedom will inevitably lead to destruction.

Second, children and parents are one, parents are roots and branches, and children are flowers and fruits. If the roots are not straight, the flowers and fruits are not straight, which is what the ancients often called "fish begins to stink at the head".

In family education, parents, as leaders of children, must take responsibility and set an example. Family education depends not on what parents say but on what parents do. However, the reality is cruel. Parents often ask their children, but rarely ask themselves. For example, many parents ask their children to read more books, watch less mobile phones and watch less TV, but they stare at mobile TV all day. How can this be convincing? After a long time, children will not listen to their parents.

A good family atmosphere is the beginning and foundation for children to receive a good education. Parents' words and deeds will deeply affect their children. Therefore, as parents, we should start from ourselves and set a good example for our children. Don't be ridiculous.

Children are the hope of the family and the continuation of their parents' lives. In the future, adult Jackie Chan will depend on the education of the day after tomorrow. To really educate children, we must start from the root. Only by grasping the root of the problem and proceeding from the essence is the key to solving the problem. Do one thing, you can't ask yourself. Children are your own shadow, and only when you are healthy can you have a positive shadow.