Much richer than you, especially in Jiangsu and Zhejiang. It is normal for many bosses and their children to spend hundreds of thousands of living expenses a month, and they have never seen them show off their clothes.
Geely's boss once interviewed on CCTV, saying that he would never surpass 500 yuan.
What can you stand by nagging here? Is it showing off wealth? You're an executive. Good. Executives also work for others. At most, they can be called senior migrant workers. You are just a migrant worker! What is there to show off wealth here?
There is nothing wrong with you making money to give your children the best material. What is wrong is that you let your children show off at school. A child shows off at school all day that he doesn't have enough food and clothes to study hard. The teacher gave you a kind reminder, and you said they were jealous. What will happen to them when they grow up?
Finally, you have to say that you have capital and your children have capital to show off at school. This is not correct!
I don't think it's a big deal to have economic ability, and it's legal wealth obtained through your own efforts. There are different ways to raise children. I think it's ok if economic conditions permit and we don't waste it. Whether you are jealous or not is another matter. The child showed off in front of his classmates. Personally, I think your education method may be inappropriate. There used to be a story that rich people may have much more money than you and buy expensive clothes and supplies for their children, but they will erase the trademarks and logo that can distinguish brands. Pay special attention to this factor when buying. Never told the children the price. I think this story should inspire you. Please learn more about how to educate children.
I hope it helps you.
I agree with you. Say half! Because there are two things here. I always say: I work hard to make money just to spend happily! You and your wife work hard and make progress. You can't buy too many expensive shoes for your children! However, your children are showing off everywhere for such a trivial matter. Do your parents still think such children are right? This is a typical nouveau riche mentality, but I have never really seen the world! It's because parents themselves suffered when they were young, and they don't want their children to suffer materially. You spoil your children like this, in fact, you are distressed by your childhood! But if you teach your child to show off in an ostentatious manner, it will be very annoying! Therefore, everything is a double-edged sword. The economic conditions at home are good, both good and bad! Besides, executives don't mean they can educate their children well! It is rare for us to be teachers, and there are too many such examples!
You have the economy and the ability to let your children eat and drink well. You are not wrong. I believe it would be better for you to spend your energy and money on your children's study. Whether you are a billionaire, a white-collar worker or a working class, you should remember: keep a low profile.
In this society, rich and capable people are very low-key, remember to keep a low profile, and being good to children should be an internal pursuit, higher than external luxury.
You are right, you are right. You two are company executives, work hard and belong to the elite rich class. Other possible shortages are not lack of money. There's plenty of money anyway, right? So children's clothes and shoes are thousands of dollars, which is a fact in itself. There is nothing unusual about having money and spending too much. In order to show their superiority, children show off their capital in front of their classmates, making you face glorious, deceiving others and making you happy. It just hurts other students a little and produces psychological pressure. For this reason, thinking that it is your fault is probably just a poor sermon. Of course you are not satisfied. As for whether they blush or not, let's leave some time to get to the point.
In fact, they think you are wrong, but you still refuse to accept it. It actually makes sense. Think about it, you are an elite rich family, and you don't have to work hard to get anything. With such superior conditions, how can children be sent to school among ordinary children? This is your mistake, all wet. You can send it to an aristocratic school or learn from Li Xiang directly. Let your baby show off in the middle, compare and see who dares to have more money than your family. Isn't this more face and sense of accomplishment? It's nothing for short people to get high marks, but it's the real skill to get high marks in high school. Is this true, don't you think? Why haven't you acted yet? You're not afraid, are you?
In this way, it is a wise saying to bow your head and be a man.
This is the stupidest thing you can do! Rich people are really not the way to educate and train children like you. Our boss spent hundreds of millions on buying a house in Hong Kong for his children to go to school. For their children to attend an aristocratic school in Hong Kong, Sanya has a yacht of 30 million yuan, which costs millions of dollars a year to maintain. The clothes and shoes worn by such children are not the capital to show off. Every parent is a billionaire. Who do you think will be jealous of how many clothes you wear?
You can't get into such a school, can you? Then there is no need to wear such expensive clothes, let alone let your children show off, so the children will be terrible. There has never been a true story in school before. Parents separated because they gave their children thousands of pieces of clothes, and the children and students played games, and their clothes were accidentally torn. The parents asked the students to accompany them, and in the end many students were afraid to play with the child. Even school teachers don't support parents' practice.
In fact, the child's mind is very simple. It is best for children not to have too much sense of superiority about money and material things, and not to cultivate children's view of money interests from an early age. Is it strange that children trained by education will be better? I am an ordinary family, a daughter, two houses and a car, and I am not short of money. My girl has no idea about these material things, and I don't want her to feel superior in front of her classmates because of her family conditions. I just let her know that everyone needs to create through their own efforts if they want to realize their wishes, and I often tell her that all achievements in life need hard work and come from hard work.
But a large part of all the wealth we have worked so hard to create is really created for children, just to give them when they need it. Let them learn to be precious, but they are moved!
Tell me a true story.
A single mother takes care of her children alone, and the family conditions are not very good, but the members of the children's football team like to play football at his home. On one occasion, several children went to his house again. One of them said to his mother, Aunt, my mother bought me two pairs of Adidas football shoes, which cost more than 2000 yuan. How much did you buy for Qiqi? The mother didn't know whether it was to test her son or to save face. At that time, she asked the child, "Son, mom can buy you a pair, too." . Because all she usually buys for her son are domestic football training shoes, and a pair of shoes is only a few hundred and one hundred. Then his son said, mom, I don't want it. His mother asked him why not. His son said: I don't want to compare with others. Our children are not compared. It's all because of your mother. Mother's eyes were red then. ...
In the evening, my classmate's mother sent a message to the single mother, saying: My son came back and told me about the shoes. Your son is great!
I hope the subject can learn something from it!
It's just, it's stupid. Try to get children to wear thousands of clothes. There is nothing to show off.
If people around you notice how many clothes your children are wearing, it proves that you haven't really entered the rich circle.
You have financial strength and want to give your child the best. There is nothing wrong. Many parents in China think so and do so.
But children themselves will not know the value of clothes, if you don't tell them? If children show off the price of clothes, they must be influenced by adults' attitudes towards money.
Including your problems, you are all executives, and you can see your sense of superiority, but it is true that you have proud capital;
But you buy clothes for your children. Why do so many people say that the clothes you buy are expensive? Have you told "many people" the price of clothes? When you say they are jealous, the average jealous person must be less financially qualified than you. Does that mean that you always show off the value of your children's clothes in front of those who are not as good as you?
It can be seen that the child's show-off may be influenced by you.
In addition, it is common for children to wear thousands of pairs of clothes now, and many rich people are also very low-key. The clothes they buy for their children are expensive but inconspicuous. You are an executive, but after all, you only get paid. Many families have more assets than you, so when your children learn to show off their wealth, they may show off in front of children who are much better than your family, and others will show disdain. Maybe you understand it as jealousy.
It is right for children to pursue good things, and he will strive to maintain or surpass this standard of living in the future. Educate children to be normal, to be caring, not to be proud of money, and to make friends in the future depends on money, not character.
The child is still young and has a great chance to teach him to get rid of the habit of showing off. Parents can set an example.