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Is it a sin for children to "waste time"? British psychologists point out that "wasting time" is also a kind of rest and energy reserve for children, but too many arrangements for children by adults will stifle their independence and creativity. On the surface of the research, "escape" and creativity in a certain period are very important for children's growth. Parents should not always look after their children, but should give them the freedom to be alone and have fun. ? Education is the art of leaving blank space. A child builds, enriches and creates himself by "wasting time" such as playing freely, staring blankly, feeling, thinking and imagining.

Think tank testimony: I remember playing house when I was a child. Every time you assign a role, there will be a dispute, but it can always be solved well. There will also be contradictions in the process of playing, mainly because parents or children have done something wrong! Playing every day is not boring. Now I think, it is these wasted hours that have taught us how to get along with others, communicate with others, and go out into the society, so that we can handle interpersonal relationships! It is these wasted hours that enrich life, accumulate the experience of life growth and help the energy of life growth alone!

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Proverbs and feelings sharing: Many parents sometimes say that children know how to play if they don't make progress! You should play when you are old enough to play. Is this a waste of time? This is also an accumulation of life! I have met many children who come to our Dojo for training. When they line up for action, they have to look at their mother's expression from time to time to see if her mother is satisfied with their words and deeds! Everything is arranged and arranged by parents. I won't express my true wishes by observing my words and deeds. I have no opinions or ideas! Children need free time, independent thinking and full play. Please don't mind so much. Children still have to go their own way!

Sharing: Education is the art of leaving blank space. In the era when I lived, my sister and my parents were busy with work and didn't have more time for us. At that time, although we were short of materials, we had playmates and endless time to play and dream, and we were relatively free and happy. Now, several parents surround a child for fear that it will be neglected, and the suffocation brought to the child is killing the child's vitality. Therefore, parents who know how to leave blank space must be a steady person, a live high person.

Feelings: Parents should give their children moderate free space, let them control their own time, and don't always think about arranging their children's time to be full and afraid of wasting it. Perhaps being too nervous will be counterproductive, and all kinds of plans and arrangements that cause children to be bored ... should be slowed down.

Today's sentiment: When my parents were not around when I was a child, my grandmother went out to play after dinner and always left my brother and me at home. At that time, I liked to stay alone in the room in a daze, sometimes reading books and thinking about some inexplicable things, and sometimes thinking about things when I grew up. At that time, I felt that the summer vacation was long and boring. When I grow up, I don't know that I will go to the tree garden behind my house every day to enjoy the cool, pull out all kinds of weeds and play house. I will go there. These are things to do every summer vacation, and now they seem to be the best memories of life. The process of experiencing life in games is an effect that we have been imitating in class and may not be able to achieve.

After having a child, I often take him back to my hometown. Sometimes he and his father can play with a branch for half a day. They imagine it is a horse or something. The aimless day will soon be over, but every day is full. Children are happy every day and sleep well at night.

Next year, I plan to turn out the open space in my hometown yard and experience the joy of farming and harvesting with my children. Such childhood memories should be much more comfortable and fulfilling than all kinds of purposeful busyness. Aren't we just trying to experience the process of life?

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Learning sharing

? Education is the art of leaving blank! It is to relax in the upbringing of children! Every child's growth experience is different, but they all like to associate with people who respect them and are willing to listen to sincere and true advice! Children, like us adults, are under great pressure to study and work and need to release the pressure! When you are alone, you also think about things and think deeply about everything? ! Children's life should not only be about study, but also games and housework. Their own affairs are up to them! We adults should sometimes think like children. They are our best teachers!

Today's sentiment: people are like a machine, which always breaks down. Isn't the machine broken? Don't we need to give him time to solve it? Idle time is to store energy for the next turning point; Education is the art of leaving blank space. I really like and agree with this sentence. Let children have their own ideas, space and time ... let children find their own way of growth!

Learn to share today: not to waste time in order to fill it, but to realize the maximum value of time by doing something that can exert its maximum value in each time period. If children are forced to go to cram school when they should enjoy freedom, it will be wasted. Maybe giving him space and freedom is what children really need.

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Think tank motto: children have their own growth rules, and each stage should have play time of this age. We adults can't regard this kind of game as a waste of time, because children's games are actually a means to know and explore the world. We can't impose the will of adults on children and interfere with their time. Some psychologists have pointed out that "wasting time" is also a kind of rest and energy reserve for children. On the contrary, too many arrangements for children by adults will stifle their independence and creativity. Therefore, to some extent, allowing children to "waste time" is the consciousness that we adults must have for the healthy growth of children.

Today's sentiment: We brought our child here without consulting or asking his permission. So what we have to do is to make them happy, not to let them live under the authority of our parents. He doesn't belong to us. It is best to be a laid-back parent.

2018.12.16 learning experience: when we are free, think back to what we had when we were young. Why can't children? Wait for the flowers to bloom!

We, as parents, are companions and guides for our children, not leaders. Everyone will take some detours and confusion in the process of growing up, mainly to see if they have enlightenment, and at the same time change themselves from the heart. Instead of others controlling you, teaching you how to do it and changing it yourself!

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Proverbs sharing: adults always feel that others want to listen, and they always feel that they are parents, and children have to listen to adults in everything. A child is an independent individual and a unique existence in this world. They have their own understanding of the stages of their lives. They grow up all the time by studying, playing and having fun. Growth is a long process. They are growing up according to their own growth laws, and adults should respect these laws.

Understand today's proverbs and learn.

Children's world is different from ours. Sometimes things that we think are meaningless may bring a lot of fun and gains to children. Maybe we adults think it's a waste of time, and maybe it will be meaningful to children. These times are wonderful memories of children's growth. Try to learn to allow children to be in a daze, allow children to feel and think, and give them some space and time of their own.

Today's proverb learning: The word "wasting time" is quoted. In the eyes of parents, children are wasting time, which is their understanding. The child doesn't think so. Only when they have their own time can they have the opportunity to show themselves and be more sunny! Think about it carefully, if our parents arrange their children's time to the fullest, the children will not be themselves, but become robots programmed by our parents! Every child has infinite possibilities. Because our parents lack scientific educational ideas and unreasonable parenting methods, children lose themselves, which makes our parents more worried about them. Therefore, every parent needs to study. Parents need to change a small step, and children will grow up a big step! Oil; Fuel charging; Make greater efforts

2018.12.16. proverb sentiment sharing: the education of children must not be full, and certain blank areas should be left for children to grow freely. A child will naturally grow up in freedom, play and communication.

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Guoguo likes to read to her before going to bed. From one to two, now to three, there is a tendency to develop into four! Whenever she picks up a book by herself and opens a page at will, she begins to talk about the pictures in the book by herself, and she speaks very well. But when asked to read, she began to keep silent, or conversely asked adults to read to her. I think this should also be the result of her own thinking!

12. 16 learning sentiment: look at today's learning content. I don't know what to say. I am a mother who always believes in not breaking the rhythm of bad children. I hope they have their own lives. Now I may be selfish to reflect. I don't want them to disturb my life. They are five and two years old now. Very clingy. I hope to keep an eye on them. Sometimes it is annoying. I hope children can be themselves. I also hope that I have enough patience when they are not ready to live their own lives. I can give more attention and unconditional love!

Feeling: We often say that we should relax the way of civil and military affairs, and this relaxation is the so-called "wasting away". There are many ways to rest. Lying on the bed or sofa, drinking a cup of fragrant tea or coffee, holding a roll of idle books in your hand, or quietly reading a small roll are all a waste of time. This is another kind of saving and learning. As long as you don't deliberately degenerate, there are not so many constraints in life. Adults and children are all the same.

Today's sentiment!

Education is the art of leaving blank space. It is particularly important to give children some free space, let them roam freely in their inner world and let them have enough creativity. It is particularly important to pay attention to innovative talents and give them more encouragement and support in the future!

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In modern society, children's daily life is arranged to the brim, which has become a very common thing for adults. Even if children's activities are not arranged for a day, it is unbearable for parents to see their children "wasting their time". But do children really need so many activities? Is it a sin for children to "waste time"?

Allowing children to "waste time" is not a sin, but a must!

Activities for infants aged 0-3 are arranged by parents.

After the age of 3, it is the child's autonomous period. Parents can't be "satellite locators". After the age of 3, children will become interested in social activities. Generally speaking, if children find something they are interested in, or want to integrate into social activities between children, they will not feel bored unless they find that there are no playmates or there are too many restrictions on activities.

? 5-6 years old is a critical period for children to socialize independently. At this age, children don't like spending too much time with their parents or siblings, but prefer to play with other children of the same age.