There are advantages and disadvantages for old people to look after babies, and it is not easy for them to help us look after children. Adults who don't study well need more counseling. Cultivate its interest and inspire it. Because of different living habits and views on things, how can the elderly get along better with their children? How to educate children better with parents? With the development of the times, parents' education for their children is definitely different from that of the elderly. As children's grandparents, there may be many new ideas that have not been learned. Many things about children can only be solved by experience, but children can't be left to the elderly to take care of. To solve this contradiction, parents of the elderly and children must be clear about their own position. Old people should put themselves in a correct position, educate their grandchildren with principles, love without petting, tolerate without conniving, and really make a determined effort to supervise their children to make correct behaviors. At the same time, parents of children should be grateful to their parents. If they can't see that there is something wrong with their children, they should immediately turn around and blame their parents. They should communicate with their parents calmly, reach a consensus and make up for each other in educating their children. In addition, how to take good care of grandchildren during holidays, the elderly should put themselves in the position of "growing up with children", rather than simply taking care of food, clothing, housing and transportation. Teacher Chen said, first of all, we should communicate well with our children and talk about the idea of taking care of them during the holidays. To be a knowledgeable old man, you don't need much knowledge of the old man. Old people can study and grow together with their grandchildren. "I like the simple and frugal living habits of the elderly, and I can take my children to do these skills myself. When you are doing it, you are also taking them to study and grow together. " She said that primary school is the golden period for children's language growth. Old people can enhance their feelings with their children through chatting, and at the same time, they can pass on their life experiences and literary knowledge to their children. In short, in addition to taking care of their daily lives, the elderly are more important to provide a positive environment for their children to grow up, so that children can gain something from it when they grow up.