How to treat playful children How to treat playful children I believe many parents and teachers have been hurt by this phenomenon: many children play all day, have no interest in learning, can't study consciously, and are always absent-minded and look around even under supervision. So, what do you think of such a playful child who doesn't like learning? The following are some countermeasures, hoping to give you some inspiration and help. First, cultivate children's interest in learning. Interest in learning is the motivation of children's conscious learning, and interest is the best teacher. If children have a strong interest in learning, they will naturally not regard learning as a chore. We often see that some children are very interested in computers, and they are willing to take the initiative to read many books about computers, which will greatly improve their playing habits. Therefore, parents and teachers should know their children's interests from time to time and guide and cultivate them to promote their healthy development. Second, let children taste the taste of success. Many children don't like studying, mostly because they always fail in their studies and their test scores are always inferior to others. Therefore, it is necessary to proceed from the reality of children, appropriately set learning goals for children, and give practical and effective help, so that children can achieve their goals through hard work and gain a successful experience. Successful experiences will inspire children to continue their efforts and make him progress. Third, cultivate attention from an early age. Children don't like learning, which is often related to inattention. Classroom teaching requires concentration for at least 20 minutes, but some children can only concentrate for a few minutes. There are many things that they didn't hear or understand when they were "absent-minded". As a result, their grades are poor, they gradually lose their confidence and interest in learning, and then they don't like learning. Therefore, we should cultivate children's attention from an early age. Some children are born with inattention, which requires parents' long-term efforts. Fourth, the intensity of study should not exceed the tolerance of children. Many parents are eager for their children to succeed. In order to improve their grades, they arrange tutoring after class. Actually, it's easy to get twice the result with half the effort. Children have learned enough at school, and a few more hours will be beyond their capacity. This kind of "classroom-family-style" relay learning often makes children lose their sense of freshness and feel tired of learning. 5. Example is more important than words and deeds. Parents' words and deeds are the best role models for children, and their every move can have a subtle and far-reaching impact on children. If parents want their children to study rather than play, they should study hard and strive to create a good learning atmosphere at home. If parents are addicted to mahjong, TV, dancing and socializing all day, it is impossible for children to "get out of the mud and not get stained". Sixth, avoid misleading family education. The wrong direction caused by parents' careless words in family education is also the reason why children don't like learning. If a parent keeps saying, "Your grades are so poor, you must be more stupid than others, and no matter how hard you try, it may not be effective." In this case, children's enthusiasm and enterprising spirit will be seriously dampened, and children will not like learning and become playful. Seven, find a good partner who loves learning for children. Peer influence is also extremely important. Most children have strong imitation ability. As long as there is a good example around, children will become better internal motivation and gradually like learning. This peer power is sometimes even more effective than parents' preaching and beating. There are many ways to change children's playfulness, but the real key part is in the hands of parents and teachers. As long as parents and teachers are proper, serious and give their children enough care and help, I believe such problems can be easily solved. It is important for children to play tricks, but some children are playful all day and have no interest in learning. Even under the supervision of parents, they always look around and are absent-minded. How to treat such a playful child who doesn't like learning? (1) Teach children to combine play with learning. Starting with the examples of famous figures in ancient and modern times, this paper tells children that success comes from continuous efforts, so that children can understand that learning is their unshirkable responsibility, and only by studying hard can they realize their ideals in life. Play is to relax yourself, to supplement your study, and to study better. This is a way to collect fun for children to avoid touching places and scenes where they play. Help children plan when to play and when to study, and participate in monitoring, so that children can learn to play together and play moderately. Don't force children to study, pay attention to the intensity of study not to exceed the child's tolerance, and the child can accept it gladly. Teaching by example is better than teaching by words, and parents love to learn, which is the best example for children. (2) Educate children to learn self-management. The best education is self-education. On the one hand, let children learn to play together, on the other hand, cultivate children's interest in learning and let children taste the fun of learning. This is the key to restraining children from being playful. Take play as a reward and encouragement for children to study hard. When children make little progress in self-disciplined play, they should be encouraged and praised in time, and constantly strengthened so that children can learn self-management.

How to treat the boy who is about to enter the college entrance examination, tap his inner dream, inspire him with pictures, and inspire him with the environment of the dream place and the people he admires. Take him to a good university, let him get in touch with the surrounding good environment and good classmates, let him experience the atmosphere, and let him naturally have a desire for a good university. If he has ideals, he won't be fun.

Children like playing video games. How to treat it slowly. I was beaten when I was a child, but I recovered later. Mainly to cultivate his consciousness ~

What do you think of children writing novels Jian Wu? Before July/October/August, 2009, a good friend of mine told me that her daughter (now studying in New Zealand, I call her Qier) liked to write novels when she was in junior high school, and she always wrote about her class. She is not allowed to write novels in this way, criticize them, and even ban them slightly. My daughter secretly wrote, even writing under the covers with a flashlight. I suggest that there is no need to ban it and appropriately guide and encourage exploration. As a result, my daughter contacted herself and serialized it in newspapers in big cities. Later, it was seen by a publishing house and helped to publish it. Yesterday, a psychological counselor in Nanping, that is to say, her daughter likes to write novels, mostly about classmates and teachers, learning feelings and even love. She also didn't criticize the children, and gave them proper guidance. She said that to write a good novel, she must have basic skills in Chinese and writing, attract readers, and not be empty. After such guidance, the children did not give up writing novels, and their Chinese scores also improved. Her child is a pupil and a girl. It seems that students writing novels is not an individual phenomenon, but an increasingly common phenomenon. First, with computers now, it is very easy to write novels. Even I am writing biographies for my parents, including pictures. Second, writing novels now is not the patent of novelists, but civilians. Anyone can write, which can be long or short, with different themes and different purposes. There are many readers and only one reader, so the social culture is diversified. Third, writing novels is not just for publishing and making money, but a hobby, even recording life, recording thoughts and expressing emotions; Fourth, children write novels. You can't simply criticize it, and you don't need a strong ban. On the contrary, we should properly guide and encourage exploration. Actually, it's similar to playing the piano and taekwondo.

How to treat children fighting? First of all, don't hit children, you can only persuade education.

Secondly, the first thing to tell children when they make mistakes in fighting is what no one should do.

You shouldn't take part in the fight, especially if you hurt people first. If others do it first, you can bear it, tell your parents at home or the teachers at school, and let the adults solve it. There is also the love of fighting when I was a child, which is not only a bad boy, but also has an impact on my future. Once it becomes a bad habit, it is difficult to correct it when you grow up and you will make serious mistakes. Moreover, children who love fighting will not like it regardless of their teachers and parents, and they are also good children who will not be friends with you again. In short, the truth is slowly said, and according to the reasons for the child's fight, then analyze right and wrong with the child.

How to treat timid children 2-year-old children, some children will have instinctive fear of new environment or strangers. When taking part in some group activities, they always stand behind, watching and waiting. If you force him to try something different, they will resist and stick to you when they see new faces. For parents who have been trying to encourage their children to be bold and independent, this behavior is disappointing. But challenging him or laughing at him can only make timid children feel more insecure.

The best solution is to let the child handle it in his own way, give him time to adapt to the new environment, and let him hold your hand when he feels unsafe. If you can accept his behavior frankly, the possibility of being laughed at by onlookers is very small, and his confidence will soon form. If this timid behavior persists, you should consult your pediatrician.

How to treat shy children Some children are naturally shy, don't like to associate with others and seldom talk. Don't think that children are mentally retarded/cultivate children's communication and expression skills in daily life. For example, let children have more opportunities to express themselves, and let him try to answer the question "What do you want to eat?" Encourage them and build their confidence. In addition, you can ask him more about his school or kindergarten. If a child complains that someone is not nice to him, you can ask him, "How do you think you should be nice to your classmates?" You don't like what he did to you. Did you tell him? "Let children think about how to express themselves exactly and let others understand his emotions and thoughts. ⊙ Often take children out to communicate with people, such as taking children to a good friend's house for the night on weekends, so that children can experience the happiness of interacting with people; Mothers should try their best to take care of their children themselves. Although the child can't speak yet, he should communicate with him more, hug him more and caress him more. If the child is timid and shy, he may become flustered when you leave him in the care of the nanny. But you have to understand the child and be patient with him. First, make him feel safe. With your help, he will get rid of his attachment.

How to treat children who talk back? (1) correctly understand talking back. Talking back to children is a kind of resistance. Young people's resistance is natural and they should have a sense of self-growth. Children can put forward their own opinions through resistance or reflect on themselves. This is for teenagers to express their thoughts and feelings, and also to understand their value in society. Experts believe that children's resistance has positive significance. Therefore, parents should affirm their children's psychological growth and understand them. At the same time, we should help and guide our children in different ways from the past. (2) you can't let yourself go. Parents' resistance to their children should not be allowed to drift. Because teenagers' problems and illegal behaviors are sometimes caused by rebellious psychology. Parents should not only understand their children's back talk, but also actively help them to eliminate rebellious psychology and overcome illegal behaviors. (3) create a good environment. The main reason of teenagers' rebellious and illegal behavior is poor family environment, especially parents often quarrel and fight, and they don't care about their children, which leads to their estrangement from their parents. When children are more alienated from their parents, they are less willing to study and prefer to wander outside. In this way, children can easily associate with bad children and avoid bad things. Some parents are at odds, often fighting for divorce, and some gamble, which makes it impossible for children to study in a quiet and warm environment at home, and it is easy for children to embark on the road of crime. For the healthy growth of children, parents must live in harmony and jointly create a quiet, warm and caring family environment for their children. (4) Talk to them often. The relationship between parents and children is formed through dialogue. Parents need to take the initiative to listen to their children with an open mind, make good use of the tone of discussion to talk with their children, and try their best to understand their feelings and thoughts. The so-called "listening with an open mind" means not thinking "I am an adult and should set an example", "I want to educate you" and "I want to establish authority". Even if what the child says is ridiculous or wrong, parents should listen carefully. If parents want to know exactly what their children are thinking and feeling now, the important way is to actively listen to their children's conversations. When parents talk to their children, they mainly talk about themselves, because this can convey their thoughts and feelings more effectively than talking about each other. When talking to their children, many parents mainly talk about their children, such as "You … are so wrong". This can easily cause children's rebellious psychology. In addition, parents should also pay attention to the way of dialogue, because different ways have different effects. Saying the same thing may make children like to listen, but it will also hurt their feelings. Use the word "no" carefully and use the word "help" skillfully in the dialogue, which is easy for geisha children to accept. (5) stand in the child's position. Parents should consider and understand their children's words from their children's standpoint. We should not only listen to children's conversations, but also understand their feelings and feelings.

How to treat proud children and children with inferiority complex as opposites? Proud children often show overconfidence, overestimate themselves, underestimate their peers and look down on others. Such children often have a strong vanity. They only like to listen to praise and praise, but they can't be criticized and don't like to accept other people's opinions. In the competition, you can only win, not lose. If you are slightly frustrated, you will cry and lose your psychological balance. I think there are two reasons: first, children have poor self-awareness and cannot objectively evaluate themselves or others; Second, adults' education methods are improper, and they usually praise and praise their children too much, so that children can grow up in praise and never suffer any setbacks. As the saying goes, "Pride makes people lag behind". For young children, pride will hinder the improvement of their abilities and get along well with their peers, thus becoming narrow-minded and weak-willed, and it is difficult to adapt to complex social life. In this regard, preschool teachers should pay enough attention. Here are some educational methods. First of all, don't praise proud children. Teachers should praise them carefully when they succeed in doing something. When judging "good children", we should set higher standards for them. For example, Ye Ye, a child in our class, dances best in dance class. She is always the best of the children and is often praised by teachers. Gradually, pride emerged in her. In view of this, in future classes, I just praised her carefully in time and asked others to do better and more standard actions.