Traditionally, children should receive sex education in adolescence, and they should not be rushed to avoid teaching their children badly. In fact, many incidents of sexual assault on young girls occur in primary schools and even kindergartens. Once such a thing happens, it's hard to get it back.

When the child is 3 years old, the first peak of sexual psychological development comes. During this period, parents and kindergarten teachers can tell children the scientific names and functions of various organs through children's picture books, wall charts of human organs or mannequins, just like teaching them to know their eyes and ears, and tell them the exact names of sexual organs, so that they can understand and love their bodies from an early age. 1, sex education, the sooner the better, don't wait until the children are older.

Many people think that children are still young and sex education should not be done too early. In fact, 3-year-old children have sprouted sexual consciousness. At this time, we should tell him the basic knowledge of sex education, such as different body components, different men and women, and which parts are sensitive and are not allowed to be touched by strangers.

2. Correct the incorrect tendency in children's daily life.

Because children's gender awareness is not strong, in the process of getting along with boys and girls, sometimes there will be overly intimate actions, such as exposing each other and touching sensitive parts. At this time, parents should take the opportunity to induce education and tell him that "he is a girl (boy)" and don't touch other people's private parts casually. 3. Pay attention to strengthen communication with children.

Don't shy away from children's topics like "Where am I from" and "What is that uncle and aunt doing?" Children need your correct answers, which is also the best time to deepen the trust of parents and children. It is very important to pay attention to children's living conditions, get in touch with people and things, and be alert to the danger that children may be sexually assaulted, because sexual assault is a process of gradual exploration and escalation. When a person becomes mature in any aspect, it is a process that needs to be learned, including sex. Mature sexual ability is the ability to minimize the troubles it brings and maximize the happiness. In an open and energetic family, children entering adolescence should be given the freedom and right to pursue good things, and they should be given a good desire and yearning for the opposite sex. If a person has lived in a family where sex is taboo for 20 years, and there is a wretched and depressing instinct in his heart, it is hard to imagine how he can have a cheerful, healthy and energetic sex life after marriage.

Mothers should take the initiative to talk about sex and love with their children at an appropriate time, but avoid the sexual content in the adult world from being transmitted to their children. Don't expose children to pornographic magazines, movies and jokes. Tell the child what he needs to know frankly and skillfully. Because now some channels, such as the Internet and SMS, can let children get in touch with sex, a large number of middle school students get married online. If you don't say it, the growing children will still learn this information through various channels, and the information obtained in this way will often mislead children. We don't use the right channels to win children, and those channels mixed with negative information will win children.

Parents should guide adolescent children to have a sense of collective belonging and a correct thinking mind, and help them turn impulse into motivation. Children can take part in a certain sport, learn to master a certain skill, participate in some group activities, guide their sexual energy into various interesting activities, and let them understand that they are not sex animals, and they must control their desires, treat their sexual impulses rationally, and sublimate into the development of new interests beneficial to physical and mental health.