What if the child is tired of learning? 1. Whether they are tired of learning because of pressure, or they don't like learning because of confrontation with their parents, it is largely because their parents don't pay enough attention to them, and for adolescent children, they don't like learning. They may need their parents around. However, this kind of companionship is not only to "stare" at the children when they are doing their homework, but also to take care of their psychological state in an all-round way, such as doing more activities with them at ordinary times, chatting with them at meals and going to the movies together at weekends. Strengthen the interaction between parents and children when participating in activities, so that children can feel the attitude that parents care about themselves from daily chat. Over time, children will see changes and the gap will gradually disappear.
2. Change yourself. In order to change children's learning attitude, parents should also learn to change themselves. At any time, parents are role models for children. If children want to enjoy learning, they should pay more attention to the input of knowledge. Parents can choose to study in a foreign language, which is the best way to study with their children at the same time. Don't always feel that you don't have time, time is squeezed out. What kind of person do you want your children to be? You work hard in that direction first, and the child looks at you. Investing in your own study is more effective than cram school.
3. Being tired of learning is a stage. For adolescent children, in fact, a large part of school disgust is emotional, because at this time, children's psychological fluctuations have not learned to adjust themselves, so it is inevitable that there will be some emotions in their hearts. The first thing parents should do is to find the road signs first and then guide them slowly. If parents can achieve emotional stability, the relationship with their children will not be too bad. They should communicate with their children more, have something for them to choose, and let their boredom dissipate slowly. If you can lay a good foundation at the beginning, children will not be tired of learning in the future. Adolescence is a very complicated stage. Children need to draw a clear line with their parents and also need their parents' care. Parents must help their children correct some concepts and make them independent. Let go of anxiety and change yourself, and you will find that your child is getting better slowly.