Without experience, it is better not to have children;
Raising an unfilial child is better than nothing.
This couplet is from Feng Menglong's Awakening the World in Ming Dynasty.
Parents expect their children to succeed and make a difference.
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Cherish the spirit and leave this body as the universe;
Wandering around, when can I repay my loved ones?
Sun Sheng, a scholar in the Ming Dynasty, was an official of the Ministry of Rites. His three sons are rich and addicted to debauchery and ignorance.
Mrs. Sun is very worried about this. She wrote this couplet specially after careful consideration.
The first link is expectation and the second link is warning. It is intended to persuade my son not to waste his spirit and time. He should be responsible for the world and live up to the kindness of his parents. It not only contains deep maternal love, but also embodies strict education.
Her three sons who went astray, under the spur of this couplet, finally repented and turned over a new leaf.
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Good (o) study, bad (Hao) study;
Good (Hao) study, bad (h m: o) study.
The wonderful couplet of family education written by Xu Wei in his later years in Ming Dynasty.
The beauty of this connection lies in the word "good", which is a pun and intriguing.
Shanglian said that adolescence is a good time to study, but unfortunately I don't know the importance of reading and don't like reading; The second couplet says, when I am old, I know the importance of reading. I want to study hard, but I can't.
Xu Wei deliberately warned his children and grandchildren to cherish time, study hard while it is early, and be a sensible person.
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Read well, practice martial arts well, and study better;
It is difficult to start a business, but it is difficult to know.
Zhu Houzong, Emperor Jiajing of the Ming Dynasty, was playful and didn't like reading when he was a child.
His father, Wang Xing, was very worried, so he was locked in his study and fined for copying this tutor's couplet. At the same time, it is stipulated that he should copy 100 times a day, otherwise he will be flogged if he doesn't finish writing.
Zhu Houzong copied 100 days, finally realized his father's painstaking efforts, ran to his father and knelt down to confess his sins. From then on, he studied hard and hung this couplet in his study as his motto.
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A porridge and a meal, when thinking hard;
It is difficult to keep thinking about material resources.
Zhu Zi's Family Instructions, written by Zhu Bailu in the late Ming and early Qing Dynasties, emphasizes that people should know how to cherish the good news and not waste it.
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Rude sir, the laggard suffers;
Fallen children, thieves and prostitutes.
In the Qing Dynasty, Nian Gengyao's family school couplets, the first part talks about respecting teachers, and the second part talks about lecturers' morality.
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Wealth is impermanent, my child, don't forget poverty;
Sages can learn, but I sweep the door and read poetry books.
The adopted son couplets written by Jiang Xinyu, a poet in the Qing Dynasty, are hung on both sides of the ancestral tablets for future generations to remember forever.
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Bite a few useful books and you can eat and drink;
Cultivate several new bamboos as straight as children and grandchildren.
Written by Zheng Banqiao in Qing Dynasty.
He teaches children to read some good books intensively and be a vigorous, open-minded and frank person like Hsinchu.
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If my children and grandchildren are like me, then why do they keep the money?
If you are virtuous and have more money, you will lose your ambition;
My children and grandchildren are not as good as me. What did you leave the money for?
Foolish and rich will increase their excesses.
Lin Zexu and Xun Zilian in Qing Dynasty.
Lin Zexu's educational thought of "spending less money and stressing more moral integrity" is brilliant in the world.
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State affairs should be regarded as internal affairs;
Being able to do everything in your heart is Buddha's heart.
Lin Zexu Calligraphers Training Association.
People don't want to be prosperous at home, but they can expand their hearts, which is the great public in the world; If we can do our best, we can make up for it in the world, which is almost as beneficial to our family and our country as the bright Buddha heart in Zhan Ran.
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Teachers and friends are willing to face it on their knees;
Children and grandchildren should bear the same books.
Lin Zexu wrote a self-titled "Jiaozilian" in the former residence of Wenzao Mountain in Fuzhou, encouraging the younger generation to study hard and become useful talents in the future.
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Perforated enough paper is very easy to make up;
Morality is the most difficult to repair.
Wang Xiangqi, a Hunan scholar in the late Qing Dynasty, was knowledgeable and noble in character. This couplet is a family motto he wrote for later generations, with a very shallow meaning.
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Be careful to make friends and study hard;
Go to glitz.
In the late Qing Dynasty, Zuo presented couplets to his sons and nephews. Today can also be used to educate children.
For children, studying hard, not fooling around, honing their will and cultivating their abilities are fundamental.
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Have a good door, accumulate virtue and accumulate goodness;
He is a good boy, plowing and studying.
In the late Qing Dynasty, Zuo presented couplets to his sons and nephews.
Accumulate virtue and do good, the family business is prosperous, and the threshold is bright; Farming and studying, doing things safely, being a man is fundamental.
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Less reading is less talent;
Being mean is really stupid.
Written by Wang Zhichun, a scholar in Qing Dynasty.
The first part says that a person's talent depends on his efforts, and his talent is low because he reads less, thus encouraging his descendants to read more.
The second couplet teaches children and grandchildren not to be mean. It's really a big mistake to be mean.
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Wealth is also great, production is also great, and later generations are also in great trouble. If you ask this question, what is the reason?
Children and grandchildren are richer, more courageous, not afraid of all kinds of events, and will not do it until they die.
There is also less wealth and less output. Later, the disasters of children and grandchildren were also reduced. If you ask this, what is the reason?
Children and grandchildren have no money and courage, and some small businesses know how to protect themselves and are too frugal.
Zai Feng, the father of the last emperor Puyi, wrote this couplet to warn future generations.
This couplet does not pay attention to antithesis, and it can be regarded as two vernacular poems with relative "size" content.
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Tears are sour and blood is salty, and regrets are hot and sweet.
Only that there is no suffering in the world;
Gold and silvery white, but jealousy and black,
I didn't know there was a blue sky overhead.
According to legend, in the Qing Dynasty, a Shandong man named Pan went to a county magistrate in the south of the Yangtze River. At the beginning of taking office, my father wrote this couplet as a gift.
The couplet warns his son to be kind and treat others well, and not to forget righteousness for profit or do evil for others. Otherwise, at that time, he knew that his tears were sour and his blood was salty, and it was too late to regret it.
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If you want to get rid of your troubles, you must have no me;
Go through all the difficulties to be a good person.
1924, when Feng Yuxiang sent his son to study abroad, he gave him this couplet.
"No self", that is, there is no false hope, and there is naturally less trouble without false hope.
"Go through hardships" is a hard life, but a hard life can temper people's will and improve their ability. Therefore, Li Ka-shing said, "One can bear hardships first, and bear hardships second", and only hard work can survive the storm.
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Don't learn lotus;
The fragrance should come from the heart.
Historian Guo Moruo wrote this couplet for his niece Wei in 1940.
This couplet is full of fun. It naturally embedded my niece's name in the hive, and sincerely taught her to be honest and behave like she appeared.
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Rather be true,;
Don't be a fake scholar.
/kloc-in the summer of 0/940, Tao Shaoguang, the son of educator Tao Xingzhi, asked the headmaster of Yucai School for a diploma behind his father's back.
When Tao Xingzhi learned of this situation from other places, he immediately turned to this couplet to educate his son not to cheat, not to learn from a false society or compromise, but to be a down-to-earth person.
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Be a good person, have a good attitude and a stable dream;
Do something good and learn from ghosts and gods.
This pair of couplets written by Tao Xingzhi can be regarded as the exhortation motto of family education.
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It is difficult to start a business, and it is also difficult to stay in business.
Knowing that things are difficult, everything is Zheng Mo's vanity;
It's easy to stay at home, but not easy to manage.
If you want to be yourself, you must be a good example.
The godson couplets are written by Wu and hung in class.
He taught his children to work hard, be frugal and not pursue vanity; When you become an elder, you should set an example and become an example for future generations to follow.
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Be content with what you know;
I have something to do.
The writer Bing Xin's grandfather wrote this couplet.
My grandfather explained to Bing Xin that some things, such as the material enjoyment of food, clothing, housing and transportation, should be satisfied, but they should not be satisfied in the pursuit of knowledge and cultivation;
We should go forward bravely and do what we should do to benefit the people of the world, but we will never do those things that violate morality.
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Combination of work and rest, health and happiness;
Don't waste oil and salt, be thrifty.
Writer Lao She writes couplets for her daughter.
Combine work and rest, manage the family diligently and live a long life.
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Parents are the first to do well;
Then the children try to improve themselves.
Godson Association of Taiwan Province Billionaire Wang Yongqing.
Parents should be role models for their children, and children should stand on their own feet.
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Gold is not a treasure;
Everything is empty, and goodness is not empty.
Written by Ma Lian, the grandfather of Ma Ying, Taiwan Province Province.
Ma Ying 9 regards this couplet as a family instruction.
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Filial piety is sincere, and parents are blinking;
Don't be generous, I will have children and grandchildren in the future.
Hu Boxun, Yueyang, Hunan.
This couplet enlightens people from the perspective of reincarnation, which is enough to persuade the world.
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Love determines this life, sharing weal and woe,
The couple were originally married trees;
Dreams after tomorrow, expressing inspiration,
Children and grandchildren are flowers to solve worries.
Written by Sun Fudou in Yucheng, Henan.
This association advocates the common progress of husband and wife and their children with the concrete image of connecting trees to solve their worries, which is vivid.
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If you are obedient to your wife, your son will be honored for three points.
Nature is rich;
With a beloved daughter-in-law, if the mother is tolerant,
Sure enough, the sky is vast.
Written by Zhong Jiandong, a contemporary Tianjin.
This couplet is based on the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, which is beneficial to the world.
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Smaller, older, second-hand can dream,
A broad heart is a good house;
There is not much gold, not much silver, and I will not forget it after studying for more than three hours.
A moral person is called a gentleman.
Author: Sun of Xingtai, Hebei.