The effective establishment of home-school cooperative education requires teachers to go deep into students' families. Similarly, parents should also participate in the reform of school management to achieve real communication and interaction. The following is a brief review of the home-school co-education class I arranged for you. I hope you like it!

In the family education 1 open class, I learned the explanations of two experts, Zhu Yongxin and Li Wendao, and I benefited a lot from the following aspects, which are summarized as follows.

First of all, respect children's physical and mental development laws and individual differences. We should consciously observe and see the actual situation of children, become "experts in studying children", guide children to discover their own strengths, let them meet their own beauty, and gain inner peace and happiness, thus improving the pertinence and effectiveness of family education.

Second, respect children's personality and privacy. Children are independent individuals, and adolescent children have strong independent needs. Because of my own growth experience and background, I didn't have a clear sense of self when I was a child, so private letters from my parents didn't cause me unhappiness; Now, their children's demands for privacy and independence are often dull and unconscious, which requires attention and sincere communication. In addition, always consciously put yourself in the child's shoes, see the reasons behind the child's behavior, attach importance to the child's emotions and emotions, empathize with them, and accept the child's bad emotions, because home should be a place to talk and tolerate emotions.

Finally, follow the characteristics of family education. Family education is life education and personality education, and it is a lively and scene-based life experience education. It is realized by enriching specific daily activities, which is more emotional and inclusive than school education and social education.

Children's growth has stages, regularity and individual differences, which require parents to constantly learn, update and follow up. Thanks to this era, they can empower their parents and make progress with their children.

The second part: After studying this open class of family education, I have a deeper understanding of the "double reduction" policy. The double reduction is to reduce the children's heavy academic burden. It can be seen from the appearance that children's homework can be completed at school, which has changed fundamentally compared with before. Secondly, the situation of making up lessons during holidays has been fundamentally improved. Internally, children spend more time participating in cultural and sports activities, reading and sleeping, and school curriculum teaching has also been reformed. The improvement and healthy development of children's comprehensive quality is the common goal of the country, society, parents and schools.

Secondly, through learning, I really understand the importance of home-school collaborative education, and also eliminate my anxiety after the "double reduction", let me understand the real meaning behind the policy. As parents, we should respect and give full play to children's unique potential. Don't be too single-minded about children. Don't take other people's children as examples, because every child is unique, and negative comments on children will make them lose confidence. Parents should not pin their life ideals on their children. When communicating with children, we should put ourselves in the other's shoes, communicate democratically and negotiate on an equal footing, and parents should truly experience a good educational ecological environment, instead of seeking quick success and instant benefit in the short term.

In short, the "double reduction" policy allows education to return to its true nature, and children have more time to develop their interests, while family education time is more abundant. Parents' family education for their children is becoming more and more important. Only by continuous learning and growth can parents better realize home-school cooperation.

When the "double drop" policy first landed, parents were very anxious. Faced with higher and higher scores in the senior high school entrance examination, I watched the children around me study hard and worried that my children could not keep up with the big army. However, in the past year, it has been found that "double reduction" has effectively reduced children's excessive schoolwork burden and the pressure of extracurricular education and training, and their academic performance has not declined.

After listening to the lecture "Double Reduction Family Education", I have a new thinking about my own educational methods. Without the anxiety of attending remedial classes, we should pay more attention to the cultivation of children's "mind", discover their characteristics by appreciation and encouragement, and cultivate their interest. Take Bao Xiao as an example. Basically, every day's homework can be done at school. When he comes home from school, he will practice calligraphy, read books, review and preview the learning content, and complete the learning task more efficiently. The school opened the "Little Water Drops" expansion course. Bao Xiao chose his favorite football class, and he hurried to get the bag for Wednesday's training. On weekends, he also has more time of his own, taking part in football training and table tennis lessons, increasing outdoor sports and improving his physical fitness.

Under the "double reduction", children's learning relies more on internal drive, school is the main battlefield for learning, and family is an important position for growth. Although the amount of homework has decreased under the "double reduction", the teaching quality of the school has not declined at all. Especially in the online class last semester, the teachers in Sanlinbei were particularly serious and responsible, always paying attention to the children's lectures, the completion of homework and the children's psychological state, which made parents particularly moved. What parents should do is to cooperate with school education, form a joint force between home and school, and pay attention to the healthy growth of children.

1 September is a special day, and my daughter officially became a primary school student from this day. With excitement and anxiety, I took my daughter to attend the opening ceremony carefully prepared by the school teacher for the children. The beautiful campus, sincere teachers and lovely classmates, and my daughter officially joined the big family of Jinhu School.

My daughter was brought up by grandma and grandma. Her father and I are both busy with work and spend less time with our children. She is the only child in the family. I'm worried that she can't integrate into the class, that she can't keep up with the teacher's teaching progress, and that she can't adapt to school life. However, seeing that she is in high spirits after school every day, she giggles in her dreams at night. I know she's happy. She likes school, teachers, classmates and school life. She told me cheerfully countless times, "The teacher praised me for singing well and rewarded me with small stickers." "I made a new friend. She is a very lovely little girl." "The teacher said that some students are cheerful, lively, smart and obedient. I think the teacher is praising me." ..... Every time I hear this and look at my daughter's smiling face, I am very happy and moved.

From the beginning of school to the present nine days, the school and teachers are not in a hurry to catch up with the learning progress, but are committed to cultivating children's good study habits, which makes me deeply moved. It is easy for children in primary schools to improve their grades. As long as they increase the amount of class hours and homework, there is generally no problem, but our school does not do this, nor does it educate them simply for exam results. But from the root cause, make long-term plans for children. Cultivating children's good study and living habits is an educational method that I personally agree with and strengthens my belief. There is nothing wrong with my choice. It is right to come to Jinhu School. Before the start of school, Director Li of the Guidance Office said at our parents' meeting, "Don't worry about sending your children to school!" Yes, I can rest assured that teachers are fulfilling their promises with practical actions. I'm really at ease with the teachers here!

In the process of studying and living with children, we sometimes encounter some difficulties. I tried my best to persuade and guide, but it backfired from time to time. When I met similar things, I was distressed and thought: as parents, we should not always blame our children, but also reflect on ourselves and see where the problems lie. Maybe we can try another way, so that children will accept it more easily? In fact, as long as there is love and creativity, family education can also be interesting.

Once, I criticized my child too much, but I didn't realize it, so that my child was a little sad and resistant. She wrote a piece of paper and handed it to the table in front of me. As soon as I saw it, the paper said, "I regret saying that." Her behavior made me realize that my words were too radical, so I lowered my voice and said, "Can you tell me which sentence this is?" She replied with a small note: "the words on the mother's day card." I clearly remember that on Mother's Day, my daughter made me a card with many love patterns in various colors. The card says, "Mom, I love you!" " "It turned out that she regretted it ... Thought of here, my tears welled up. I opened the paper she wrote to me and wrote, "Sorry, it's mom's fault!" " "Besides, I specially wrote the word" horse "to the right of the word" mom "as" bird ",which my daughter wrote on the Mother's Day card, hehe. When my daughter saw it, she immediately covered her mouth and criticized me with a smile: "Mom, you wrote the word' mom' wrong. How did you become a mother? " Seeing that my daughter found the mistake of the word "mom", I smiled through tears, and the tense atmosphere suddenly became active. I said to her, "Miss Sun, would you please help me correct my mistake?" The daughter readily promised.

From this incident, I was inspired that in communication with children, sometimes it is more convenient and effective to use words than words. Because compared with language, language is shy and sometimes difficult to say, language is implicit and euphemistic, which makes use of the close communication between us and our children; Language is fleeting, and sometimes it doesn't necessarily leave much impression when spoken several times. It's easy to go in one ear and out the other. Writing overcomes this weakness. As long as it is not destroyed, we want to take it out and read it again when we want, and we can relive it every time we read it, which is naturally more impressive. Compared with the stormy reprimand, using words not only takes into account the child's self-esteem, but also is easy to be accepted by the child. It also allows her to truly touch the care and love of her parents, which is more conducive to parents entering the child's heart. So many times, family education can also add a lot of fun.

I don't know what's going on. When my baby first went to kindergarten, he got up in the morning and entered kindergarten without endorsement. Every time he is forced to send him, he always cries for a while. But now my baby has made great progress and is no longer in the mood after getting up. He can go to kindergarten happily with his schoolbag on his back every day, and play happily with children without crying or making trouble after entering the park. In addition, we found that the baby has made great progress in diet. I don't need adults to feed me now, but I usually eat by myself. For this reason, I deeply feel that kindergarten education is really crucial to the growth and influence of children. Here, I would like to especially thank the two teachers and aunts in Class B for their careful care and patient teaching. Without their careful care and education, the baby wouldn't have made such great progress. I would also like to thank all the teachers who helped and cared about Hong Xin's baby!

As parents, the first responsibility is to educate children, and the primary task of educating children is to cultivate their good habits. Napoleon Hill said: "Sow the next action and you will get a habit;" Sow a habit and you will gain a character; Sow a character and you will reap a fate. "Habits determine success or failure, and habits change life. As parents, we cannot allow our children to have bad habits. Therefore, we attach great importance to the education of the baby's good habits, and educate him bit by bit in life, such as teaching the baby to be hygienic, washing his hands in the door, brushing his teeth and washing his feet before going to bed, cutting his nails frequently, not spitting or littering; Teach your baby to concentrate on things; Teach your baby to be honest and not lie; Teach the baby to honor the elders and so on. Success begins with cultivating habits. For the success of children, parents are advised to pay more attention to the cultivation of children's good habits! Now the baby has been promoted to a small class, and the original aunt, Angela and Fiona have followed. I am glad that my baby can continue to be taken care of by them, because I found that their two teachers also attach great importance to the education of baby's good habits, and even do better and more detailed than parents in this respect. One day, after the baby came home and took off his shoes, he gently put them away and said, "You can't throw them." I asked him, "Who told you that?" He said, "That's what the teacher said. "On another occasion, I asked him to help me with my things. He even said to me, "Mom, do your own thing. "I was surprised at the time. This sentence comes from my son. Look, how well the teacher teaches! How happy the baby is!

I believe that under the careful care and patient teaching of parents and teachers in Kangqiao Bilingual Kindergarten, Hong Xin babies will grow up healthily, confidently and happily.

A brief review of home-school cooperative education in class 7. Primary education is the earliest formal education a person receives in his life. Doing a good job in primary education plays an important role in cultivating children's healthy conduct and good interest in learning from childhood. How to make a good start is very important. It can sometimes decide what kind of road a person will take in this life and what kind of conduct he will take in the future. Pupils are like flowers in spring, innocent, lively and lovely, but their ability to distinguish right from wrong is poor, and at the same time they have strong curiosity and ability to imitate. Therefore, according to the characteristics of primary school students, we should "prescribe the right medicine", teach students in accordance with their aptitude, be good at guiding them, try our best to stimulate their learning hobbies and promote their healthy growth.

How to educate and cultivate their children in primary school is a common problem that every parent wants to solve. Here, I want to share with you some experiences in the process of educating children and discuss ways to educate children together.

First, pay attention to the cultivation and shaping of children's humanistic character.

Educator Mr. Tao Xingzhi said: "Thousands of teachers in Qian Qian teach people to seek truth, and thousands of students in Qian Qian learn to be human." Parents, as children's first teachers, are the objects of children's worship and imitation, and the most important source of information that affects children's behavior habits. Children's words and deeds reflect their parents' ideology. Parents' behavior habits in daily life are irregular attitudes, moral concepts and many other aspects, which have a subtle influence on the formation of children's outlook on life and world outlook, and have a far-reaching impact on the growth of children's future life path. It is not easy to be a parent, and it is even harder to be a good parent. Therefore, parents should set an example, consciously strengthen their self-cultivation, and demonstrate to their children the practical activities of respecting the old and loving the young, being humble and helping each other, being tolerant and generous, and treating others sincerely. As Confucius said, "To be honest, there is no order to do things". Let the children truly "parents call, and should not slow down; Parents, don't be lazy. "To cultivate and shape children's good personality, parents themselves must match their words with deeds, set an example for their children, and let them set lofty ideals from an early age, thus inspiring endless motivation in their hearts. Only in this way can we play our unique educational role for the healthy growth of children.

Second, through the "Yan Kuan" education, make the best use of the situation.

Hu Shi, a great scholar, once said, "When a person is young, it is most important. In the future, becoming a great saint, a great hero, a great hero, a great traitor, a great thief and a great thief are all divorced from this kind of family education. " Nowadays, there are more only children in society, and family conditions are better. In the process of children's growth, many parents often ignore the strict education of their children. Invisibly, it has created children's personality characteristics of "spoiled", "selfish" and "self-centered". In primary school, children are obedient, easy to discipline and simply develop good behavior habits. This stage is a critical period of education. At this time, I am mainly strict with my children. Educate children to know reason and morality, be honest and trustworthy, and don't get rid of bad habits. Start with such small things as asking children not to tell lies and litter, and try to let them do what they can at home, such as serving adults, washing dishes, chopsticks and sweeping the floor. When asking questions, we should take advantage of the situation and make strict corrections to children in time, so that children can understand the truth and leave a deep impression, and gradually understand that life is not a philosophy of smooth sailing in setbacks, so as to have a clearer goal, a correct attitude and a direction. At the same time, we should pay attention to communication with children and adopt a strict, tolerant and democratic attitude towards children. Most children's personalities and sentiments will show enthusiasm, directness, liveliness, independence, boldness and self-confidence, and they will neither give in nor respect others. At this stage, it is most effective to cultivate children's good habits. Grasping this link is equivalent to grasping the child's future.

Third, cultivate children's good study habits and independent consciousness.

As a child who has just stepped into the campus, we should educate our children to be ambitious. Ambition is one's goal. Only by establishing correct learning objectives and defining the direction can we make continuous progress. Therefore, it is particularly important to cultivate children to form good study habits. Playfulness is a child's nature, which requires parents' supervision and guidance, so that children can develop good learning qualities such as strictly observing school rules and regulations, paying attention to lectures in class, reviewing in time after class, earnestly completing homework, thinking independently, asking questions diligently, and firmly mastering what they have learned. At the same time, in line with the requirements of the school, according to the characteristics of children, make plans to simultaneously grasp the moral, intellectual and physical education of children. It is reasonable for teachers to ask parents to sign every day. It is an effective way to supervise and understand children, and it is also an interactive platform to contact schools and families. Parents can keep abreast of the school's teaching arrangements, learning content, learning progress and children's performance at school. And what they did well and what they did badly. Share the teacher's praise with children and tell them to make persistent efforts; Analyze the poor performance with your child and tell your child why it is not good and what to do in the future. In real life, we should pay attention to hone children's will quality anytime and anywhere, cultivate independent consciousness, be good at observing nature and life, encourage children to overcome difficulties, strive to achieve goals, constantly enhance children's self-esteem and self-confidence, help children understand themselves comprehensively and truly, and form good persistent study and living habits.

Fourth, stimulate children's interest in learning and develop their inner potential.

Hobbies are the motivation for children to become talents. Children's ideals and beliefs in primary school have not yet been formed, so the motivation for learning depends on the interests and hobbies that have been formed. Primary school study should be accompanied by pleasant experiences. Tell your child that "learning is really fun". In fact, the joy of life is knowledge, and psychologists' research and invention, knowledge acquisition and understanding of the unknown world constitute human spiritual enjoyment. In an Olympic Mathematics school in Fujian, the school motto is not "study hard and make progress every day", but "math is fun". This captures the children's fun psychology and makes them feel that learning mathematics is not a difficult task, but a fun and enjoyable thing. Therefore, in ordinary family education, we should be good at guiding and innovating conditions, and try our best to apply the content of learning to life and games, so that children can feel the fun of learning. If the child makes a little progress, we will praise her: good performance! Great progress! What a great idea! Great imagination! You can be a teacher for your parents! Wait, let the children feel happy and have a sense of accomplishment. When we don't do well enough, we will earnestly encourage her to say, I believe we will do better next time. Children's interest in learning is fully stimulated invisibly. Active study hobbies can enrich people's knowledge, develop people's intelligence and internal potential, and play an inestimable role in the growth of talents. Darwin once said: "The most important reason why I can succeed in science is my love for science, my persistence in long-term exploration, my pursuit of observation and my diligence in my career." When children have hobbies and confidence, it will be easier to learn anything.

Adhere to the combination of after-school study and pay attention to the edification of art education.

Knowledge needs to be accumulated continuously. The ancients said, if you don't accumulate steps, you will be thousands of miles away. If you don't accumulate small streams, you won't be a river. In addition to learning knowledge at school, we have also made a study and exercise plan for children after school, so that children can participate in interest class training. For example, practicing oral arithmetic, reciting poems, reading articles, playing guzheng, painting, vocal music, martial arts and so on. , are carried out alternately according to the semester weekend, constantly expanding the learning horizon and increasing a lot of knowledge. In particular, guide children to extend their hobbies to the art field and accept the influence of art education. American education experts have pointed out that education without art education is incomplete education. The charm of music lies in that it can make life more interesting, thinking more creative, learning more efficient and life more abundant; A high-quality talent with all-round development of morality, intelligence, physique and beauty should not only have professional knowledge, but also have aesthetic, cultural and artistic accomplishment including music. Therefore, attaching importance to children's art education is conducive to intellectual development. By regulating left and right brain functions, it can promote development, improve children's thinking ability and imagination ability, enhance memory and attention, stimulate children's learning emotion, enhance children's aesthetic ability, cultivate sentiment, and lay a foundation for children's intellectual development and the formation of perfect personality.

Create a good family atmosphere and cultivate children's healthy psychology.

Our family is harmonious and happy, which provides a good family environment for the healthy growth of children. In the process of work, we also need to keep learning and acquire new knowledge. As parents, we should set an example. We all like studying at home and can persist for a long time. Regardless of book knowledge or network knowledge, we consciously create a strong learning atmosphere at home, such as reading more books and newspapers, which has a subtle effect on children. And strive to create a learning experience for children, so that children feel that reading is a kind of enjoyment. At the same time, pay attention to cultivating and shaping children's healthy psychology and sound personality. Especially when children encounter confusion, setbacks and mistakes, communicate with them in time, give correct guidance and adjust their mentality. Help children cope with setbacks and challenges calmly, cultivate children's optimism, let children maintain a good attitude and will in future adversity, and resist setbacks from indomitable fighting spirit and persevere. As the saying goes: the sword is ground; Plum blossom fragrance comes from bitter cold. All innovations and inventions, as well as the success of the cause, are by no means plain sailing, and can only be achieved through hardships and overcoming many difficulties. Let children face the reality with a good attitude and truly innovate their own bright future.

Family education is a complex systematic project. My family has not done enough education for children, and some methods are still being explored. We will persistently learn from the successful experience of other people's family education, discuss and study with teachers and parents, so that children can develop in an all-round and coordinated way, keep up with the pulse of the times, and become intelligent, virtuous and conscious high-quality talents.