Pippi is the only baby in the family. The whole family has been obedient to him since childhood, and Pippi has cooperated with him in whatever he says and does. But now that she has reached the age of kindergarten, Pippi was still very excited when she first entered the park. But it didn't take long for the family to find that Pippi became quiet and always dawdled at school.
Pippi's parents used their children's school time to secretly inquire about their children. As a result, they saw Pippi standing alone in the corner and the children didn't play with him. Pippi's parents angrily went to the kindergarten teacher and asked what was going on. The teacher said that when Pippi first entered the park, he pulled the little girl's hair, stuck the turtle behind other children and kicked the children's stools in class. Now nobody wants to play with him.
Pippi's parents also know that the child is naughty and think that the children in kindergarten can't bully him. I didn't expect children to isolate their children collectively nowadays. No wonder today, I will see my child standing helpless in the corner, feeling wronged and wanting to cry. It's all because I used to spoil my child so much that he developed the habit of self-abuse, but I was still kept in the dark and didn't know it.
In fact, the unpopularity of children's personality is mainly due to family education. Nowadays, most families are only children, and all family members have been around a child since childhood, so it is easy to develop a child's arrogant character. In kindergarten, children are naturally not welcome, and such children will be rejected by the collective.
(1) Always being naughty and bullying children's children.
If children are as naughty as Pippi and often bully kindergarten children, it is easy to be hated by everyone. These bullied children go home and tell their parents that they will definitely tell them not to play with naughty children. Such children are not good children. Then children will have their own circles, and they will get farther and farther away from such naughty children.
Children who are polite since childhood are popular everywhere, because it reflects the quality and self-restraint of a family. If children are treated as "dirty" exits in kindergartens, they will not only be rejected by children, but also teachers will not like such children. Then it is reasonable to be cold-blooded by children in kindergarten, so the correct guidance of parents is very important for children. Usually, children must learn to be polite and be a modest and sensible boy in order to win the love of others.
Children should understand a truth when they go to school and observe discipline in class. If children are naughty and don't obey discipline in kindergarten, they will definitely be criticized by teachers in public and then labeled as bad students. In this case, many children will not go to play with him, because most parents have taught their children to stay away from bad children before they go to school, and to learn to make friends with polite and well-studied children.
Good habits are very important. Parents should teach their children manners at an early age.
It is very important for children to be polite. Parents must teach their children well when they grow up. Only polite children will not be isolated in kindergarten. Even when they grow up, those polite and educated children will win the respect of others, which will be of great help to their future growth.
(2) "Respecting teachers and loving children" has always been a compulsory course for children, and parents should supervise it.
Speaking of respecting teachers and loving children, it has always been an excellent tradition of our country. Therefore, parents should cultivate their children's awareness when they are young. The experience summarized by predecessors for hundreds of years can't be wrong. After all, this word is still a compulsory course for all children today. Only by respecting teachers and loving children in kindergarten can children get respect and care from others.
Learn to help others and be a kind and enthusiastic boy.
Learn to be an enthusiastic child who knows how to help others, and be kind. This kind of child needs no friends in kindergarten. Because of their good conduct, children have the ability to distinguish right from wrong even at an early age. Therefore, I have been kind and helpful since I was a child, and I will certainly gain happiness on my way to growth.
Never let your child become the isolated person in kindergarten. Love your child, but don't spoil him. Children should be taught to have good conduct and moral standards from an early age. Only in this way, the road of life in the future will go further and further, and it will go more smoothly.
Topic discussion: After reading it, do you think the "cold violence bullying" of kindergarten children is related to family education? What do you pay more attention to in raising children?