We always think that children just need to beat and scold. Only by beating and scolding children can children realize their mistakes. Because our education in China always thinks that a dutiful son is born under the stick, but is this really the case? Today, Bian Xiao will tell you about it.

1. Educate children not to beat and scold, ok? Bian Xiao thinks this kind of education is really suitable for many children, because for children, their parents are the closest people to them, and their parents beat and scold them, which undoubtedly hurts their hearts. Therefore, at this time, if we can give oral education to children, let them know their mistakes and let them correct them, then this kind of education is the best. Beating and scolding children will only make them admit their mistakes at that time, but in their hearts, they may hate their parents because they think they will beat themselves easily.

Second, how to educate children correctly? Educating children is not to let them remember by beating and cursing, but to let them realize their mistakes. Don't talk about children, even parents make mistakes now, so don't always take children's mistakes seriously. For example, when children are about one year old, they may just hit others with their hands to show their kindness to others, but in the eyes of parents, they will think that their children's behavior is very impolite. Therefore, parents and children have very different views on one thing. As parents, we'd better not always take things too seriously.

Third, summarize. Bian Xiao never hits children when he is educating them. Even if Bian Xiao is angry, he won't beat and scold the children. Because Bian Xiao knows how hurtful it is to beat and scold children, it will also make children feel inferior in the future, and may also lead to violent tendencies in the future. When we realize that the child has made a mistake, we should calm down and think about it. How can I get my child to correct this mistake?