Teachers are the enlighteners of children's dreams and the guides of life. As we all know, a good education is not to cultivate flowers in a greenhouse, but to cultivate towering trees; Then a good teacher should be strict and kind, sincere and simple. I believe that everyone has met their most grateful teacher in their life. They have firm eyes and love in their hearts. Today I will share a beautiful article with you. I wish all students can meet teachers who have light in their eyes and love in their souls, and thank the teachers who have been guarding them!

Author: Liu Na

Reprinted from WeChat WeChat official account Leisure Flower (ID: xsha369)

Children, accompany you to sign up, watch you carry a big schoolbag and run into a brand-new big campus with a full face of joy, thinking that you will spend most of the next decade on campus. As a parent, mother is full of joy and expectation, but also mixed with anxiety and anxiety.

How many parents, like mothers, watch their children's thin figure disappear in a corner of the campus, pray that their children's road to study is smooth and undisturbed, and look forward to better and better dreams tomorrow.

Mom thought, there should be many.

As ordinary people, children, we miss those enviable and dazzling famous teachers and classes, but as a mother, my mother still hopes that you can meet a teacher with a ruler and light in your eyes and be an awe-inspiring and religious student.

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There is light in the eyes and love in the soul.

Will sow the first dream of your life.

Son, my mother told you about her way of reading in the past.

My mother didn't go to school until she was seven and a half years old because her family was poor. She didn't go to kindergarten before, and she didn't understand ABC. Until the third grade of primary school, my mother didn't show any extraordinary talent, and her grades were once a mess because of her poor math grades.

Fortunately, my mother met some teachers with eyes. They are humble and unpretentious, but sincere and warm, caring for the world.

One is a Chinese teacher in my mother's primary school. She is young, bald, red-faced and loud. She can sing, and her slender eyes are full of soft and kind light.

It was the first time that he wrote a comment on "true feelings and feelings" in his mother's composition book in big red letters. It is also the first time that he read his mother's composition as a model essay in class. While reading it, he encouraged his mother with the corner of his eye: This sentence is good, but where and how to change it?

The light of encouragement in this teacher's eyes, like the starlight in the thick night and the orange lamp on the long mountain road, lit up her poor childhood and strengthened her life dream of writing for survival.

In recent years, my mother can write some sincere words and receive some positive praise, which is not unrelated to the Chinese teacher who had light in her eyes when she was a child.

Children, when you read more books, look at more people and do more things, you will understand how a teacher with light in his eyes and love in his soul will affect you:

Their fairness and kindness, sincerity and brightness will reflect the true colors of the world in your clear eyes and sow the first dream of future life in your young mind.

Mom hopes you can meet such a teacher.

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A good education will not grow flowers in a greenhouse.

It is to cultivate towering trees.

But, son, you should know that blindly accommodating and giving in, blindly encouraging and tolerating can only cultivate flowers in the greenhouse, but not towering trees.

A good education must be combining leniency with severity, with clear rewards and punishments; A good teacher must be disciplined, strict and kind.

Now, our education is permeated with the breath of "at home, parents are unwilling to take care of it, but at school, teachers dare not take care of it".

This is the sorrow of the times for education, the misunderstanding of encouraging education, the dislocation of the relationship between teachers and students, and the deviation and blasphemy of the essence of education.

As a mother, the mother disapproves of the stick education of violent feeding, and even opposes the abnormal and cruel corporal punishment education, but supports the reasonable disciplinary education.

If you neglect your studies at school, insult your teacher and bully your classmates, and the teacher criticizes you and punishes you in his way, you can't expect your mother to stand on your side, complain everywhere, make trouble without reason, sue your teacher and discredit the school. Mom can't do it.

Because, since childhood, while your mother loves you, loves you and teaches you to raise you, she often criticizes and punishes you, and occasionally repairs you when she can't control her emotions.

So my mother thinks that teachers who care about your growth have the right to discipline you while teaching you textbook knowledge and life principles-this is part of education, which my mother should support and education should be inclusive.

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A teacher who is strict with you,

Don't be hostile, be grateful.

To illustrate this point, mother decided to tell you another story.

My mother was a Chinese and calligraphy teacher in middle school. She is very tall, with a Chinese face, very strict and picky, and there is a hint in her heavy eyebrows.

Every week, it's his turn to take a calligraphy class, and some students who are lazy and bad at writing are afraid.

Because, when a teacher takes a calligraphy class, he will put a ruler in the lesson plan. Once he found that a student's handwriting was scrawled and perfunctory, he would not only be ordered to write again, but also severely hit five boards on his left hand.

"Chinese characters are a treasure of the Chinese nation and a badge of China culture. If you can't write Chinese characters well, what else can you do? ! "The teacher's words are still ringing in my mother's ears.

Under his strict requirements, the calligraphy of students in our class has been praised repeatedly. Even my mother, who used to write badly, practiced good handwriting that year, and was often praised as "big and beautiful" after work.

A few days ago, my mother went back to her hometown and happened to meet this retired teacher with thick hair and rickets back in a small restaurant next to the town middle school.

He sat in a noisy restaurant with a boy in our class who got the most boards from him, eating peanut beans and drinking a little wine.

"Teacher, if you hadn't been strict, I guess it would have been ruined." A classmate who is already the boss of a cultural company in Beijing said to the teacher.

The teacher who took a sip of the cup replied, "I don't regret hitting your board." Only responsible teachers manage students! "

Yes, son, only responsible teachers take care of students.

So, don't be hostile to your strict teacher, but be grateful.

Because only responsible teachers will take all kinds of pressures and risks to discipline you seriously or aggressively.

He expects you to be a better person, which is why he is so thankless.

This is the paradox of preaching and teaching, and it is also the teacher's deep affection.

Mom wants you to understand this as soon as possible.

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Although you no longer study for others,

But you must fight for yourself.

Son, you are now well-fed and well-fed. Unlike your mother's generation, you grew up in an era of material deprivation and poverty.

This is your luck and your misfortune.

You don't have to study hard, burn the midnight oil and fight to the end in order to get rid of the hard life and humble fate, as your mother did when she was a child.

You don't have to study hard, get good grades and go to a good university as your mother did when she was young, to repay those parents who worked hard to support their children in poverty and illness.

You don't have to regard reading and learning as a life dream and the glory of your parents as a lifelong belief in the swamp of inferiority and hunger, as your mother did when she was growing up.

However, son, in this era of rapid development, resource sharing and abundant talents, it is more difficult than your mother's time to stand out, get ahead and be superior, and you need to make more efforts.

Although you are no longer forced to make a living, bound by your parents or dominated by fate, you are shouldering more seemingly invisible but heavy missions: you have the right to choose your favorite job, you have the capital not to lose your cherished dignity, and you have the ability to live a happy life.

Yes, my son, through the struggle of his parents, has finally returned to his true colors from the utilitarian role of "Yan Ruyu with a golden house and a charming house", but its attributes as a growth ladder, an adult certificate and a medal of success have never changed.

Although you no longer study for others, you must fight for yourself.

Your education and qualifications, wisdom and courage, self-cultivation and virtue are compulsory courses in your student days, and also your business card for making a living based on society.

Mom wants you to have this.

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May you walk for half your life and return as a teenager.

May you study all your life and look back on love.

The sword has been properly worn, and the school is also a Jianghu. The wine is still warm, and there is no way out in life.

Son, forgive mom for saying so much.

Mother's greatest wish is not that you can get the teacher's preference and God's care, but that you have a dream not to lose your faith, learn to be a man in reading, know the rules in being a man, know the awe in the rules, and live up to your life in awe.

As a child of ordinary people, you must understand:

Learning is not a pleasant thing. Only those who have suffered are qualified to talk about the happiness of learning.

Without competition, the campus is not a paradise. Only those who dare to show their swords are qualified to be their own heroes.

Struggle doesn't happen overnight. Only those who constantly surpass themselves through lifelong learning have the capital to say that they are worthy of life.

Children, go out bravely for your own study and road, career and dream, life and life.

May you walk half your life and come back as a teenager.

May you study all your life and look back on love.

This is my mother's wish and the wish of all parents in the world.

Article source | Liu Na, the author of Leisure Flower (ID: xsha369), has published millions of words in the media circle for more than ten years, and can write family and homesickness stories, as well as hot topics in education and workplace.