But in reality, this kind of education seems to love children very much, but due to the excessive protection of parents, the chances of children feeling and solving difficulties are greatly reduced, which often leads to children's vulnerability, passivity, dependence on parents and inability to live independently. In fact, children's education needs a little "reverse therapy". Parents should harden their hearts, increase the difficulty appropriately, and let their children take fewer detours.
I wonder if your parents have heard of the word "blx". Recently, my colleague Xiao Zhang wanted to educate his children because he found that his son likes willfulness and malice. Then Xiao Zhang and his son sat down to play together. Your son not only lied, but also said that Xiao Zhang could not beat him. Finally, Xiao Zhang won, and his son cried and couldn't stop him. Xiao Zhang is puzzled: Why can't children see that they can win or lose?
At the beginning of the course, Professor Feng shared a case with us: A girl in grade four got excellent grades, with more than 90 points, but she got 79 in a math exam. Knowing this, his mother warned her son that it wouldn't happen again. After listening to his mother's words, the child studied harder and felt very nervous and scared before the next exam. As a result, he got 69 points after the exam results came out. At this time, his mother was more anxious and in a hurry, and came to see him with her daughter. Well, through this, I got together with friends not long ago. My friend talked about his children in the chat. This process may be like this: when they eat at night, the children are ready to eat because they don't want to find a stick that doesn't work well. After the child's father saw it, he said anxiously to the child, "Eat with chopsticks, otherwise what are chopsticks for?" Only when you use chopsticks most often can you learn to eat with chopsticks. "Hearing this sentence, the child seemed very angry and tears welled up in his eyes.