Don't care too much about your grades.
In junior high school, parents should not only pay attention to their grades, but also pay attention to their children's hearts and encourage them from the side, which is better than verbal pressure.
In junior high school, parents should first affirm and recognize their children's efforts, and don't care too much about the results, so as to encourage their children to have a healthy attitude to face the future.
Respect the child's personality
How parents treat their children is an important factor in their mental health development. Some parents are too strict with their children, reprimanding them everywhere, dominating their activities and letting them do whatever they say. On the surface, the children educated in this way are educated, but because their independent personality is not respected, they often show self-restraint and self-distrust.
On the contrary, some parents try their best to meet their children's requirements, which leads to their children becoming self-centered, selfish, arrogant and even aggressive. Parents should treat adolescent children equally, respect their independence, let them gradually learn the behavior of adults and act according to the general norms of interpersonal communication. The wrong attitude of parents is one of the important factors that cause the children's personality to be unsound.
Advice to parents of senior one.
1. Cultivate interest. When children are young, learning advanced knowledge is not the key. The most important thing is to develop children's intelligence, cultivate children's imagination, observation, memory and oral expression ability, which are all paving the way for future study. We should start with cultivating children's hobbies. This time can't be urgent. We should take it step by step.
2. Cultivate good habits. Good living habits and the ability to live independently are both important. Developing good living habits from childhood is of great help to later life.
3. communication. Don't beat and scold children when they make mistakes. Try to communicate with them and tell them what is right and wrong. When communicating, you should lower your mind and treat yourself as a child, so that when communicating with her, there will be no generation gap between you, and communication will be fine. What you say will be easy for her to understand, and she will understand where she is wrong, so she won't make mistakes next time.
4. encourage more. At this time, some children have gone to school, so at this time, no matter whether their handwriting is good or not, you should not blame them, but encourage them to write better next time. The encouragement of adults is an incentive for children. If you blame them blindly, they will lose confidence.
The above is what I summarized for you. How to educate the first-grade children correctly is for reference only, and I hope it will help you.