1, the main factor affecting children's grades is not school, but family.

2. If there is something wrong with family education, children may have a hard time at school, and children are likely to become "problem children" at school.

3. For children with good grades, the mother is usually a planned and agile person. The more serious, organized and polite a father is, the better his children's grades will be.

Poverty is an important educational resource, but the poorer it is, the better it is for children's growth. Parents need to provide their children with basic cultural materials to prevent them from falling into the abyss of inferiority.

5. Richness is another resource of higher education. The experience of westerners is: "It takes three generations to train a noble." "Class is hereditary." However, more advanced educational resources need more advanced educational skills. Without advanced educational skills, wealthy families will bring disaster to children's growth.

6. Don't be a knowledgeable and uneducated parent. Some people have received higher education, but they are not necessarily literate. If parents don't know how to live, treat others well, or even treat their children well, then no matter how high their academic level is, they are uneducated.

7. Parents can regard their children as the center of the world, but don't forget that parents should also live an independent life. If parents are completely child-centered and have no theme of their own lives, such parents often interfere with their children's growth in the name of love. Sometimes, it's not that children can't live without their parents, but that parents can't live without their children.

8. Parents need to take the responsibility of educating their children, but don't completely cancel their leisure life because of educating their children. "No sense of responsibility hurts others, too much sense of responsibility hurts yourself." (Wu Jiaxiang)

9. If parents quickly pick up their children when they cry, then children will take advantage of this feature of their parents and constantly pester their parents to make more demands. Therefore, the child cried, don't rush to pick it up, parents had better let themselves have something to do, and let the children watch themselves and do things quickly.

10, the relationship between husband and wife affects the child's personality. If a man doesn't respect his wife, then his son learns to disrespect his female classmates at school. If a woman doesn't respect her husband, then her daughter learns to look down on her male classmates at school.